Are you okay with your so looking at porn or does it bother you? Also are there any men on here that don't look at porn etc like complete honesty?

[livinglife097]

Curious to know also if u don't watch it how tempting is it not to watch

[Lionman95]

I haven´t stopped completely looking at it because sometimes I fall back into it. But my ultimate goal is definetely to completely stop looking at porn. I´ve overdone in the past and I have installed a porn blocker on my phone that is secured with a pin a good friend of mine has installed.
I also use porn blockers on my computer but those are easier to overcome.
It would bother me if my s. o. watches porn because I know about the side effects it can have and I can understand why women are bothered by it.

[livinglife097]

Yes it's hard to not do it but it's for the best I think anyway and it's good you're doing what u can to try and quit

[SkipPerk]

I am 45. I never look at porn. I was married in my 20’s and early 30’s, and I would look at porn when my wife traveled for work. She still got angry. I could never tell her her creepy friends offered themselves to me and I was trying to be loyal. I would have rather had her home.

I prefer real women. I want a wife I can happily, lovingly sleep with every night.

I also grew up post-internet porn.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

She doesn't watch it and neither do I, but I wouldn't care if she wanted to. I just don't watch cause it does nothing for me. I'm all about the physical sensations and I don't get that by watching another person get off.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I don’t mind it, I just don’t want him to be addicted to it or watch it while we are getting intimate. Those things are a turn off and would bother me.

[NamerOfStars]

Sometimes masturbation isn't just about sex, or isn't about it at all. So long as it's just her, and it's not interfering with our sex life, I don't have a problem with it.

[Apple1996]

I'm completely fine with it since I watch porn too

[oldguystillhasit]

I do look at porn some aspects of porn are kind of hot. If I really want to get turned on and aroused I will read erotic literature.

[bowenw]

It doesn't bother me if she watches porn. We occasionally watch together.

[Koneko911]

I don't care, I know it's a typical thing everyone goes to when they feel the need to masturbate and want something to look at

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'd be worried if she didn't, because it either means she's the town bicycle, or she has no idea what she wants, or she is so unpicky that I'm easily replaced.

[livinglife097]

So if she didn't watch porn you'd be worried what if she wanted to only want you?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Porn is how you see enough naked bodies to know what you like, only other way is sleeping around, and if she only wants me, then its because i fit her ideal body and brain types. if she's not picky about either, then its a red flag that i'm easily replaced.

[livinglife097]

If you're with someone y the need to know what u like do u not like what u have?

[TheSpaceGnome]

That setence is unlegible and confusing, please rephrase it so I know what you are trying to say.

[CloudMassacre]

I’m okay with them watching porn.
I am transitioning to just listening to porn, and sometimes I just listen to music, but sometimes I still want to see something.
But I’m also alone, so 🤷‍♂️ What are ya gonna do?

[Henry_-_Blakes]

I'm okay with my girlfriend getting horny and depending on porn when I'm not available. We sometimes watch it togather

[kellytheman]

Usually I only watch porn when I am single but I always watch porn with my girl if she wants too but if she not I don't need too cause I got the real thing.

[Caliguy88]

My two long term gfs I’ve had wanted me to look at it because I wanted it more than they did. It got them off the hook when they didn’t want it. It’s never been a problem for me. Never not given it to a partner when they wanted.

[CuriousMufuxka]

I'm not okay with looking with porn without jerking off. With my ex's I was only bothered when I caught them looking without me! At least the last time it was chicks :)

[bamesjond0069]

I generally don't watch it. I don't have a problem with it per se. If I do look its more just for general appreciation purposes and not for masterbation. I look at very very specific things. For example a specific playboy nude I just think is very beautiful. I might look at it on a rare occasion for a minute and not for the purposes of being aroused.

[SHREYASH007]

I don't watch porn becaise it wastes time I feel even if I want to watch I only prefer hot guys fuck, not interested in watching ugly people and more of natural.

[In_Trance]

it's fine. everybody does it

[livinglife097]

Lol not everyone 🙂

[In_Trance]

I disagree. Everyone has access and curiosity will get the best of them.

[Koneko911]

Especially now a days... to pretend you haven't at least seen a porn is ridiculous as almost anyone above 12 has

[In_Trance]

@Koneko911 absolutely

[livinglife097]

Yeah everyone has seen it including myself but going out of way to look or watch is a whole other story

[Koneko911]

Not really it's not. You're making to big a deal out of something pretty much everyone does

[In_Trance]

@livinglife097 sooner or later you'll be bored, alone and horny. It'll be waiting for you

[livinglife097]

Okay I used to be alone I may have looked more being single but not looking it up it'd just be there cause the shit is everywhere and just because y'all say everyone does it doesn't mean it's right I don't follow the crowd or whatever

[Koneko911]

So basically you have a grudge against porn 4 no reason...

[livinglife097]

No I have a grudge against porn because I find it wrong especially while in a relationship I see it close to being cheating and I know I'll receive a bunch of backlash but that's how I feel

[In_Trance]

Again, sooner or later, you'll go back and it'll be waiting. Everyone does

[Koneko911]

And that's an immature view as I'm positive I told u when u posted anon. The fact u can't realize at the end of the day porn is just porn and your man is with u is sad and childish

[livinglife097]

Okay then if you say so I'm not saying I don't think about watching it or haven't but I know it's wrong so I don't do it

[livinglife097]

It's not immature what's immature is not doing things to please yo so other being their alone lusting is wrong porn Is wrong and no one can convince me otherwise

[Koneko911]

It's not wrong though

[Koneko911]

No, your view is immature

[livinglife097]

Okay God sees it as wrong he's not immature also looking at someone else's body while your in a relationship is wrong you're literally sitting there lusting thinking how much you'd like to have sex with that other person again wrong people think things but to feed bad things to your mind wrong not immature

[In_Trance]

If it truly is wrong, why do so many God followers do it?

[livinglife097]

Just because they are a God follower doesn't mean what they are doing is right everyone sins and we all make mistakes but all we can do is try to do better and ask God for forgiveness I'm not saying im a perfect person and I'm not saying y'all are bad people for watching porn but wrong is wrong

[livinglife097]

I do wrong all the time and I try to fix what I know isn't right and it ain't always easy

[Koneko911]

God isn't real... so that's not a valid argument at all. And the fact u think to watch porn u have 2 wanna fuck said pornstar is immature because that's not the case. They're just there 2 look at. So what if your partner thinks they're attractive? At the end of the day he's not fucking them, he's fucking u. Grow up

[In_Trance]

You have a lot to learn. There is no such thing as right or wrong

[livinglife097]

We will see in the end God is real and it's not immature or wrong of me to wanna only want my husband I'm not saying I don't think things about other men like they are sexy or whatever because I do and I get upset with myself id rather only want to think about the one I'm with because I love him I have nothing to learn about in this conversation anyway

[Koneko911]

Nothing is wrong with fining an attractive person attractive. Just because u do doesn't mean you love your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend less. It just means u can see and appreciate something nice looking. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that at all like u seem 2 think

[livinglife097]

No you're right nothing is wrong with finding them attractive I wish I didn't though even if it's not wrong but lusting like thinking of them sexually wanting to be with them is wrong in my opinion

[Koneko911]

It's only wrong when u decide to act or make it a problem. People r sexual. I love the fuck out of my boyfriend, but hell I've seen men and women I find sexually attractive. Maybe not fuck but hey I wouldn't mind seeing then naked. It's just a fantasy. It's nothing real. It's only wrong or harmful when it becomes a reality and you and your partner aren't okay with that

[Luckycharms12]

I used watch porn got fed up of it.

[livinglife097]

Why did you get fed up?

[Luckycharms12]

Fake and boring.

[Luckycharms12]

But dont mind if someone watches porn

[hellknight666]

I don't usually watch it doesn't really do anything but if my friends with benefits is wanting to watch it to spice up our night sure why the hell not

[livinglife097]

Cool

[nudeNhorny]

I don't mind my so looking at porn, we usually look together and comment.

[Waldoe]

I looked at a lot of porn when I was younger... Huge sex drive... later I was a Male-stripper on "Ladies Night" at a local club... 'Bitches Be Crazy'... porn does not bother me, sexuality is very strong in a lot of people, and a safe outlet is better that many other options, Porn is a safe outlet for many guys... and did I mention... "Bitches be crazy" ?

[abc--123]

Id be so turned on if she did watch porn and I watch it all the time I love porn

[Xtendable]

Yes, she looks at it. And yes, I do too, often with her.