Sexual Relationships 
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Losing your virginity is a big deal (no matter what anyone says) and you only get one chance to lose it. These days teenagers are doing it because their "friends are doing it" or because they want to "get rid of it." Both of which are NOT good reasons to start having sex.
Lost my virginity but now I feel like crap?
How do you know you're not ready?
- You don't know the risks (pregnancy, STDs)
- You only want to do it because everyone else is doing it
- You think it'll make your partner happy
- You have high expectations (your first time won't be like a scene from The Notebook)
- Talking about sex makes you uncomfortable (if you can't talk about you won't be able to do it)
How do you know you're ready?
- You know the risks (pregnancy, STDs..)
- You know how to prevent those risks (condoms, birth control)
- You can openly talk to your partner about sex
- You’re comfortable with your partner (emotionally, physically..)
Remember kids, sex is a big deal. Especially when you're about to do it for the first time. Always be safe and never left anyone pressure you into doing it.
What Girls & Guys Said
16 28I'm definitely ready for sex but not a relationship. So confusing! 😩
Babysteps! Nothing wrong. It's slower that's all. Takes longer time to get to relationship stage.
"Remember kids, sex is a big deal. Especially when you're about to do it for the first time. Always be safe and never left anyone pressure you into doing it."
So, you are advising kids to have sex?
Nope, just telling them to b safe if they are
First time? Use protection, the guy will burst quicker than a 9mm hand held firearm in a shooting range.
Get yourself checked at the doctor's and then you can go raw. That's pretty much it.
No! That is horrible advice. I don't care if it "feels better" without a condom it is a necessity.
i dont understand ur advice? but it sounds retarded. and not every guy is a sad excuse for a male. and how is not using a condom after the first time ok? u implying a relationship is stable and the girl is on a pil or same variant?
I imply that the two people have brains. Or maybe three, you never know. About not caring if it feels good or not - if you don't know the person, it's sure as hell you are going to use a condom. Beneficial friends or a relationship, doesn't matter which - if the people have enough guts (you would not believe how many people are afraid of it ) to go to the doctor's and come back with the good news (most likely) - are you still going to INSIST on condoms being a necessity? What if the girl wants him to go down on her and he's going to pull out a piece of plastic before he does... in case it's... you know.. poisoned? Do you see where your logic is flawed?
Do you feel that wetness down there? That means you are "ready." >:)
Gross
Hey lady, you'd be surprised. From what I've been reading, a lot of women think it's something more like, "He has an expensive car, so I must be 'ready'." And then they complain about the pain.
I agree with her, Gross
I expect 100% of females to disagree with me. That's how I know I'm right.
I do tend to have high expectations...
Not ready for sex yet--I'm waiting til I get down to having the best body I can right now.
me i am 31 still a virgin
There's nothing wrong with that
I don't have a girlfriend now！how ready？（╯＾╰）
dose guy mind their GF isn't a virgin?
Yes, They would mind , Especially The Chinese guys. But I don't mind at all. This is 21Century, virgin is rare
wingbabe is a chinese girl！>_<|
Yep HongKong Girl
hahah , because i know many many guy they also said they does not mind but their behavior said they are lying
I'm always horny :)
I never wanted to lose it to a girl I didn't care, or didn't want a serious relationship.
But now, I found the good one, my first GF ever, yes its a LDR, but even if we never met, we both are ready and want it so much. She will be my first and Ill be her second (in 25 years, not bad :P ).
So, yeah, I can't wait to lose it with her, this summer I will visit her and... ;)
Its gonna be so passionate, emotional :O First time we meet IRL, leaving from Canada to Japan for 10 days to meet her.
I just hope I can last more than 10 mins :P
Anyway, we are not gonna do it only 1 time, so I dont worry :P
Of course, maybe I would have prefer if she was virgin too, so it would feel even more special, but only with 1 guy in 25 years, and last time she did it was 2 years ago, its still close enough :P
I will never be happy when i lose my virginity because I am a virgin and my GF probably won't be
Keep in mind boys, if you can't make her reach orgasm she'll regret it the next morning and tell the police you raped her.
Think before you wet your willy.
I understand all of the things on the you're ready list... But why should I have sex, when a boy my age probably won't even last more than 5 minutes? What's the point for such a short amount of time?
Yes.. Mah body is redeh
That you keyspirits?
My boyfriend wasn't ready til i came along and he is 24.
So dont worry about fitting in kiddies..
Losing your virginity is not a big deal as people make it out to seem in my opinion.
After 22 years I'm finally ready. Every other girl I've gotten close to (always stopped short of a relationship because I didn't feel I could put 110% in), I've ended up not wanting to go there. I'm not waiting until marriage, but I've been waiting for my perfect girl before going there. Now I've found someone I feel strongly enough about to have sex with, and honestly I'm really excited.
She was actually really sad that I won't be her first time too to start with, virginity isn't particularly a special concept to me but I wouldn't have sex with just anyone. She lost hers to her ex who turned out to be an asshole; when she found out I was still a virgin, she actually cried because virginity's special to her and she feels I'm so much more worthy of giving it away to me. We talked about it and after I settled her, she can't wait to teach me everything she knows - although from our sexual conversations it seems as though I have more to show her than even she knows.
Strange how people feel differently about it; I'm massively looking forward to getting there and (hopefully... lots of reading on techniques done so far, lots of theory to put into practice! ;]) blowing her mind.
I've been wondering something:
Do I have to use birth control pills even if he uses condom? And how long should I take the pills?
if you want to be extra safe, it's always good to have more than one form of contraception in terms of pregnancy. either way, you should always use a condom for STI protection. you should take a birth control pill every day for as long as you are sexually active (your health care provider will suggest this).
No, you can so both
if u dont want kids NOW and ur having sex u should be on the pill or some variant they make of it now. condoms are nice in the early days of the relationship too, neither of u know where the other has been. keep that in mind. both guys and girls like to lie and make themselves sound more innocent right before sex. as for the pill last i knew u should be on it 30days before unprotected sex.
I think I am ready for years as the penis says so :d