Are you struggling with porn?

So many resources out there to help. Particularly for men but women too struggle. Joseph's story in Genesis 39 when faced with temptation in the form of Potipher's wife is a good start.

Other resources;

1. Joshua Broome's new and only book (Porn star turned Pastor)

2. XXX Church a website that helps with porn addiction recovery

3. Podcasts; Girl defined, Becoming Something, Compelled Podcast, Christian Sex ed

Reminders. It's a drug in as much as the more malevolent ones, it has the same effects and maybe even worse than actual substance drugs. It has ruined marriages and ruins relationships, it weakens men and women and exacerbates debased minds. Feeding your lusts doesn't show autonomy, real control and autonomy is in the freedom to chose to not indulge. Jesus can give you true freedom John 8 vs 31-36.

Don't be afraid to confide in trust worthy people. If you ever need an ear, God is but a few words of prayer away 1 John 5 vs 14

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  • No, when single I enjoy it but not to an addictive degree. When in a relationship i can let it go cold turkey. Does mean I need a replacement of course in the sense of having sex with my partner or if its a LDR having videos of her I can watch instead if she can't be around due to timezone scheduling.

    So I consider it healthy since I am not obsessively watching it and primarily using it as a tool to satisfy my sexuality when single so I don't have to resort to desperate measures that are less healthy (Such as hookups with girls I dont love).

  • It's so unrealistic and fake I don't even have any desire to watch it. I knew a guy that was a cameraman for high end porn and the bleach the nutts and put fruit flavored disinfectant on butt holes just before butt play scenes a lot of cum shots are faked and so on.

    • Indeed, God created an outlet for pleasure, just get married and have a wife to engage in whatever. Easy peezy lemon squeezy but again this porn culture has made people love instant gratification and unwilling to xommit to one

    • I dgrè fully jut I got disappointed once.

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  • Not me but I see many men who do and it is a sick addiction hard to cure. They need to pray to God.

    • Thanks so Much, Sweetheart, Not sure why I was ANON. lol!!! xxoo

  • @verylovelyguy where does the sperm go when you do it in public 🤷‍♀️

    • Part of the problem unfortunately... Men are out there struggling and you come up with such a question-like really?

    • He said he wasn't struggling and he jerks off in public, so where does the sperm go? 👀

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  • What a complete and utter load of Bollox!

    • How so

    • That so-called comic thing called a "bible" is just that... Complete and utter Bollox.

  • still can't find sharks in my bathtub...

  • Masturbation is healthy any real study shows that so no struggling here.
    Science > Bible.

    • Masturbation and porn are not the same thing. Porn addiction has shown to cause ED, issues with intimacy and for some people, take over their life like a drug would.

    • Been addicted to anything is bad what's the even point talking about that. People with addiction issues to anything need help, but people who aren't don't and guess what most people who watch porn aren't addicted to it.

    • by the way, science is the discovery of things around us. The Bible tells you what is, it doesn't discover. So no Science is not > the Bible

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  • Yes. Difficult to find good, wholesome, erotic AV. East Asian is better. Western is too dark.

    • Why not turn it off and channel your energy and attention to something other than erotica. Focus on ascerting self control of the mind perhaps?

    • Hey, Multitasking can work.

  • No, I can find it any time I want it. No struggle at all, except to find exactly what I'm looking for!! Even when you type in exactly what you're looking for, you rarely ever get it.
    Drugs are, quite often, very addictive. Porn is not! I can go weeks on end without bothering with it at all and only give it a look when I feel the urge. Most of my time online is either spent here, answering e-mails, watching YT videos or doing research on records that I like a lot, maybe editing music for future CD or recording projects. Records/music, root beer and drums are my only addictions.

  • No i struggle with caffeine and shopping.

  • I'm not. Sure I watch it at times when I masturbate but otherwise I have no need for it

  • i wouldn't say specifically porn. i masturbate to real girls as well. i don't need to get lost in the fantasy created by porn. i get off to girls in public while wearing pulse solo essential under my pants or to random girls on video chat

    • And you're 34 and think that;s just alright. What happened to self-control and gentleman manners... not being mean just genuinely asking

    • no but i'm socially inept and i don't know what other options i have in the short term

    • Let's think more in the long term... marriage is always an option bruv

  • Nope

  • Not so much now. I feel like I've seen it all and I can move on to other things.

  • Are you struggling with it too?

  • I don't believe in gods

  • No struggle here, use it now and again so no major issue.

  • yes, but I have been free for some time…by the grace of God

    • Glory be to God!

  • I’m not struggling at all. It comes naturally to me!

    • Can you live without ti