Aren't all women lesbians?

[Anonymous]

I don't understand why my girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with another girl. I have asked her many times and she always declines and stays mad with me for a couple of hours. I thought all women were lesbians shouldn't she want to have sex with another girl. What can I do to make her have sex with another girl? I was thinking of watching lesbian p*rn together.

[Anonymous]

that makes no sense. many people of both sexes (including people who identify as straight or gay) are bisexual, though. so you could say many (but definitely not all) women are actually bisexual, though they may not identify as such.

all women are not lesbians and you can't make someone have sex with a girl, what is wrong with you? I'm bisexual and I wouldn't even let a guy pressure me into having a threesome or whatever. that's dumb.

[im_a_loser_baby]

all women are not bisexual. most are straight and identify as straight.

[im_a_loser_baby]

your biased because your bi you think women who call themselves straight are actually bi and there not they are disgusted by girls like you. eat that you feminist slut.

[saphirasilverwings]

She did not say all women are bi. She said MANY are bi, which is probably not too far off.

[im_a_loser_baby]

many women are not bi the statistics show only 13% which is not many.

[saphirasilverwings]

I would say 13% is many. Not MOST, but many.

[Opinion Owner]

im speaking from the perspective of common sense and education in sexual psychology. if you disagree, that's fine. I believe most people are bisexual. straight and gay are like kind of like race. these are all socially constructed ideas and labels. the actual nature of sexuality usually can't be fit into boxes of "straight" or "gay" anymore than people can be said to be "purely white" or "purely black." its just irrational. you don't have to agree, but this is my answer, not yours.

[Opinion Owner]

@ loser, you are speaking from an incredibly biased perspective of anti-gay views and homophobia. not only that but youve also revealed prejudice against feminists too now. id say you come off as far more biased than I am. lets try to appeal to logic here. aside from all your other issues, why are you not biased as a straight man? why does that not prevent you from understanding sexuality, but my bisexuality hinders me somehow? id really love an answer to that... by the way identity is different.

[Opinion Owner]

what you claim to be isn't always what you are. and then the idea of sexual fluidity complicates things even more, or the idea that we are in a constant state of self discovery. I've always been bisexual, but I wasn't fully aware or accepting of that part of myself. so if you had met me a few years ago, you would have thought I was straight and could claim that you met a straight girl (me.) that obviously wouldn't be the truth. time, self discovery. many people are in the closet or in denial.

[Opinion Owner]

aside from that, there are varying degrees of bisexuality. most people fall on that spectrum somewhere. its just that some people strongly prefer one over the other. along with those strong preferences come the pressures and brain washing of heteronormative society, religion, etc. its very complicated but yes I am saying that MOST people are bisexual to some degree, and that identity can be far from reality. Just like race. I can identify as one race, but purity of race is an illusion.

[im_a_loser_baby]

your the kind of girl that would try and turn straight girls bi.

[Opinion Owner]

O.o you seriously have issues. I don't try and turn anyone anything. you either are straight or you're not. most arent, which is why *some* of them "turn bi". I've never tried to chase a so called straight girl. its a waste of time. I have however had straight girls come on to me several times once they find out I'm bisexual, trying to kiss me or grope me. I'm the gateway to experimenting or some sh*t, I guess. sometimes I don't mind, other times its a bit annoying. so you're wrong, once again.

[saphirasilverwings]

You can't just assume that she will be okay with that. Not all girls are lesbian or bi and not all girls will feel comfortable with having sex with another girl. There is no "should" when it comes to who you desire sex with. You cannot "make" her have sex with another girl. Respect her feelings already.

[im_a_loser_baby]

in other words most girls are straight.

[saphirasilverwings]

Maybe. Every study says something a little different. I don't know what percentage of girls are straight. But that doesn't matter. The point is that SOME girls are straight.

[im_a_loser_baby]

most are straight otherwise you'd see girl girl couples everywhere you go when in fact I rarely see that.

[saphirasilverwings]

You are probably right that most are straight. However that is not the point and I don't want to focus on quantities here.

[Anonymous]

That's so stupid! NO! not all girls are lesbians! in fact some girls find the thought of being w/another woman disgusting! If she is w/u is because she likes the outies (and she is dumb obviously)... so don't try to convince her 2 do so

[HopefulDreamer]

Wow, I wouldn't even go there man, All women are definitely not lesbians, girls don't appreciate the fact that you would consider bringing anybody else into the relationship, it shows your losing your focus on them and that's like a slap in the face. :-/ Women don't like being insulted.

[cun7n1nja]

LOL. Dude, if she's not into women, she's NOT into women. Good troll. But if not, take a look at HopefulDreamer's answer. THAT is why.

[septemberangel118]

no. that assumption is really bad to make about girls. most girls will identify themselves as straight, however all people can have bisexual thoughts.

[im_a_loser_baby]

bisexual thoughts do not indicate if a girl is bi she's still straight.

[septemberangel118]

I wasn't saying it made them bi and guys have gay thoughts as well

[im_a_loser_baby]

so you can read my mind? because I don't.

[septemberangel118]

It's human nature. You may not even realize you have the thoughts. Why are you attacking everyone's answers? People are entitled to their opinions

[pepper01]

you should f***/get f***ed by a guy to make it fair

[taster]

LOL!

[kmhco]

Haha just like all men should be gay and want to have sex with other men.

[NellziiBabii]

Wtf if all women were lez we wouldn't b here you watch to much p*rn its like her saying do you wanna have sex with another guy and if she was lez how could she b your gf? Ur so stupid

[im_a_loser_baby]

Portia de Rossi was married to a guy and now is married to Ellen she now identifies as lesbian so its possible ...

[NellziiBabii]

Yeah but things change I was straight and now I'm bi, maybe she was bi?

[im_a_loser_baby]

bi girls are nasty just saying. I would never date a bi girl and I don't believe sexuality changes that's why gay people are crazy Portia hurt her husband by leaving him.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

you are an idiot you can't make her. Look I'm not a lesbian I strictly like d*** only

[dIO_oIb]

yes.

[decentusername]

troll harder I didn't quite chuckle.

[Asker]

I am not trolling, This is a serious question.

[holly916]

TROLL... not all girls are lesbians in fact most are straight

[JennieF]

No, we're not.

[Anonymous]

Lol..no