Guys, As a black woman, is it bad to want to have sex with a white guy just out of curiosity?

I've always heard they are very passionate and focused on pleasing their partners.

And just to hopefully eliminate assumptions: I am 5'5", 118 lbs, mocha-toned, no kids, 2 science degrees. I'm a very soft spoken woman whose simply curious yet nervous about what it's like to be with a white man.
I'm also not entirely anonymous; my profile picture usually always has a picture of my legs. If that clears up anything.

Anyway, please try not to be harsh, guys. Just honest. Thanks~
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Thanks for all of your responses guys. I was not expecting to get anywhere near this many responses, nor was I expecting white guys to harbor the same curiosity. Quite a surprise.
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  • I think it's natural to be curious about something that you haven't experienced, and I don't see anything wrong with that. It's human nature, really.

    As a white guy, myself; it's flattering that you feel we're all very passionate, and focused on our partners, and I'm sure that's true for a lot of us. I've always felt it was important to maintain those qualities in my personal life, but I unfortunately, we have many selfish guys among our ranks, as well.

    If it were something you ever thought you'd pursue, I would advise you to be at least somewhat selective, so that you do find someone who possesses those qualities.

  • I THINK I know who you are and I know that you are attractive already...

    However, you giving us more of your background is great!
    I (definitely a honkey) would have loved to have dated you.

    • I believe that I just PMed you.

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  • I think its normal...
    Im a white guy that has always wanted to have sex with a black girl, for no other reason than the excitement of it...

    people come in all different ethnicities and shades of color, and it would be fun to explore something different than we are used to...

  • there are no girls of any other color or nationality in our city. but I think that a person can make love to anyone they want! motives? Yes, at least some! life is one and you need to use it to the maximum! try everything! if I had the chance.. I would definitely not refuse..)

  • No. I have had sex with a black woman (and Asians, and others) but it was not because I selected them for that. I just do not consider race to make a difference. But if I had never had that experience, I could probably be curious. So nothing wrong with you wanting that. If you make that known to certain guys, I am sure several would enjoy the opportunity to have sex with a black woman, especially as good looking as you sound. Hope you get your desire soon.

  • No not at all. I've often thought the same thing. Is sex with a black girl any different? Probably not im guessing but you can't help but be curious sometimes.

    Seems kinda normal honestly.

  • Not at all. I've never slept with a redhead and I always wanted to. Sex should be a freeing and mutually pleasing experience. If you are curious about what it would be like to sleep with a white guy find one you find attractive and strike up a conversation. There are many, many white guys who want to sleep with black women too.

  • If you didn't told us that you black woman we would not guessed based on your other data. :)

  • If we are dating, sure.
    But putting it that way would definitely rub me, personally, the wrong way.

    But that's only because I'm not into anything casual, and I definitely wouldn't want someone's interest in me to be motivated by just "curiosity".
    But imagine if I wasn't that monogamous, I would have no other issues with it.

  • Not bad at all. Lately I've really wanted to have sex with a black woman having never been with one lol. I'm sure it's no different than any other woman, but lets see! lol

  • No, of course not. Incidentally, there are lots of white guys who would love to date you.

  • I have a similar interest as a white guy wanting to experience a black woman, feel free to message me.

    • I'd like to chat and get to know each other and our preferences, see if there is any chemistry between us. Feel free to follow me if you are at all interested. I'm a Marketing Consultant but have shifted gears somewhat during Covid and I'm leading a team that is developing, designing and building a prototype of an UVC Disinfection Cabinet.

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