As a grown man do you still classify women as sluts and prudes?

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  • No. Slut shaming is desperate. When a man wants something sexual with a woman, he'll have to make his sexual market value high (Going to the gym, have a job, have plenty of friends, build up his confidence, have experience with other women, learn charisma, pursue his purpose). This is a very very long process that can take years. But when a woman wants something sexual, all she has to do is take off her clothes and she'll have eight guys licking all over her. This is because men have the instinctual need to repopulate. We love sex. However, women love sex as well. Slut-shaming men hate that women get all the pleasure they want. These men dislike the concept of sex life being "easy" for women when a man has to go through so much development to be considered hookup material. So they shame women for it. It's really easy to shame the opposite gender for their own problems. These men get mad when the girl they want doesn't want to suck him off when she sucked off everyone else that goes to the same bar. Guys like this get zero pussy and most likely have never had their first kiss.

    • Wow so profound

  • Yes, but not in an either/or way. You can be a slut and many other things as well. Also, I do not "classify", but simply "describe" ... each person can be described as having many traits simultaneously.

    If you're asking if slut and prude are archaic terms - I do not think so. But perhaps that is because I never thought of 'slut' as necessarily a negative thing, and I never thought of 'prude' as applying only to women (a man can be prudish too).

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  • No I do not classify a women as a slut... I do not really belief in that thing since I wanted sex from every women I dated, and therefore I would not want to attach any negative cogitations to sex or being with a sexual women.

    Now a women who expects to be romanced, wined and dined and then doesn't feel that a man should put any expectations on her... well yes I would assume she is a pruned and break if off by the 3rd to 5th date if she is not putting an equal effort into the relationship by accommodating my needs.

    So No on the slut thing, but Yes on the prude thing.

  • Well, prudish could be an accurate description of certain attitudes toward sexuality. There are prudish men AND women.

    I generally disapprove of the word slut. Just because a woman is sexually active or likes to look sexy doesn't make her a slut. I have the highest regard for liberated women who acknowledge their sexuality and enjoy sex. I think placing value on women's purity is absurd. It's an outdated, patriarchal attitude.
    It pisses me off when prudish people call non-prudish women sluts.

  • But, becase such behavior is not dichotomous or binary but exists on a continuum.

  • Nope I don’t do it now, never did it when younger.
    its not something I have ever done.
    always seems pointless

  • I don't only break down women by those categories, no. But if she's sleeping with half the town but claiming to be "a good girl looking for love," then I'm going to call a slut a slut. I don't even have an issue with sluts per se, so I'm not exactly shaming her, but if she's a slut, she's a slut! Just own it. As for prudes? What women are even prudes anymore? Even Amish women are opening OnlyFans accounts nowadays.

  • I never understood that anyway why men or women haters is it because they can't have their way did you cuz you're not in control I love that part then I never liked the word s l u t
    I never believed in that word just because
    If a girl can't find anybody to please her then she's allowed to go and find a guy that will please her that's all there is to it it doesn't make her a slut that's what guys do so I see more Power to her
    If I say slut it's because I'm in bed and we're fucking hard and she likes to be called dirty names but it's a good name as I'm concerned I like that word

  • If anything I start slut-shaming more as I become older, and I am 34.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/oDaaAI6keSw
  • I just never did that... not even when I was younger and ~immature~

    I just don't classify people and label them as this or that, I rather see everyone as an individual... and then an individual I know about better, or I just don't know them well enough, so I surely do not try to judge so lightly, especially based on just perception, lol

    • That’s amazing

  • Only if she gets turned on by being called a slut

  • Why the fuck would I do that?

    Even if the woman is a slut or prude, it makes little sense me putting her over the coals as well. I'm not the Spanish inquisition. Hell I would probably tap that ass with consent as well.

  • Yup. Most of the women who use this website I'd classify as whores based on their own words and admissions. Similarly, most of the men here are whoremongers.

    A person who lives in perpetual fornication and/or adultery is called a "whore" in the Bible, so that is the traditional, historical classification associated with the people on this website who SHAMELESSLY live in perpetual adultery and fornication.

  • Yep.

  • I don't classify people by behavior, culture or race. But people tend to live in a spectrum of characteristics and they tend to classify themselves.

  • Yes, it helps to manage my time properly.

  • Yes to the slut part NO to the prude part. I break down that mindset in two ways. She is either a lady of high moral fiber OR a frickin hypocrite!

  • I try t ogive everyone the benefit of the doubt but if she was , well, it is what it is.

  • Never.

  • No lol
    That’s a highschool mentality for sure. Couldn’t imagine being a grown adult and still worried about the sexual past of other grown adults

  • yup many men do it

  • Sluts are sluts, grown or not, they need to be called out. They cheat, lies, uses and manipulate others. I don't belittle prudes, they are innocent in this.

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