Guys, As a straight man, while in bed with a woman, having sex, would sticking your thumb in her butt cross your mind?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Yes, I do it often. My wife and I enjoy anal sex and are doing it more and more lately. When I'm doing her from behind she likes the feeling of her ass being stimulated, and it's a good opportunity to get her ass ready. But due to the angle and proximity to her pussy it's uncomfortable for me to get a finger in her ass without my hand getting in the way of everything esle. But it's easy to rest my hand on her butt cheeks and rub her asshole with the pad of my thumb. I grab some of her vaginal juices (or some lube if the anal is premeditated) and rub her ass with my thumb while I'm fucking her pussy. When I feel her ass start to relax and loosen, I'll stick my thumb in, which she loves. Sometimes she cums from just that. But it always help get her ass ready for anal. What works even better though is a butt plug. If we know we're going to do anal I'll have her get on her knees and pleasure herself while I rub her asshole and then work a lubed finger in, and then slowly work the plug in. We'll do vaginal sex for a while but her ass will be ready for anal before long.

[RedInnocent68]

Cross my mind? Now it will! 😂 Not while having sex, but have while helping my SO masturbate. 😉 Incredible way to feel her orgasm! I’ve also recently got her a butt plug with a poofy bunny tail, but haven’t convinced her to wear it yet (not that it’s a struggle, we’re both just both too anxious to get going once things get started 😉) Frankly the poofy part is more for me 😂

[MrOracle]

Yes. Pretty regularly, in fact.

[Honest-Matt]

I've seen it all the time and kind of just dismissed it. Never crossed my mind when having sex, I'd think it'd be unpleasant having a thumb jammed in there randomly.

[HSalenko]

Never, and I'll never understand why anyone would.

[Keyboardkat]

Not my thumb! That's too big! But my second or third finger I've used for that in the past.

[Constatine]

No why? Is that a must... ?

My mom thought me not to put my fingers or thumb... in places where they not belong..

In other words... iew ! what? Ouch !

[summiter]

Not really unless she suggested it or asked for it

[BoopBoopBeep]

About 50/50. 4 out 5 times it was expressly asked for though, so that skews it.

[OfMiceandMen]

Never, not unless she brought up that butt play was fair game.

Some people like and some people don't, it's always best to confirm. My motto is: when in doubt, check it out.

[slatyb]

Yes, it totally would. Many women like it. That's how sex works. You try things and see what your partner enjoys.

[Bricealan]

Not my thumb, more like my middle finger or maybe my tongue.