As a straight person, do you still find the opposite sex attractive after you’ve found out they’re gay?

Question

Have a very attractive gay guy living in my house and he likes to just wander round in his underwear... 🤷‍♀️

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

No. I completely lose all attraction for that person if I find out a girl I'm into is not straight/queer. I like to imagine myself as being together with that person (even if only for one night), and if there's no chance of that happening because she's not heterosexual, then the fantasy is ruined because she's not attracted to men. I have far less attraction when I find out a woman isn't single, or is married, but it only reduces it by 50% because there's still a chance she could break up or leave him. But I have 0% attraction towards queer/"bisexual" women or full-time lesbians. I could never possibly be with one, and I consider it a turn-off and dealbreaker.

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

Depends on the gay.

For example a gay girl who looks like a regular girl can be attractive. But not one who shaves her head and wears clothes that point out she's gay.

I think for guys it's different because a gay guy 9 times out of 10 looks gay

douride2 · Accepted Answer

Just because he is gay doesn't mean he is any less attractive looks wise. Still just because he is gay doesn't give him the right to wander around in his underwear. What would he say if you did the same?

Pallavi37 · Accepted Answer

Yes I know one guy who is gay but I feel safe with him. Even if he hug or kiss my neck m fine.

Lliam · Answer

I find fit women attractive even if they're gay. It doesn't matter to me if they are gay or straight because I'm married and am not interested in sex with any other women. But I still love looking at them.

JPrez · Answer

No offense to lesbians but most of the ones I know are not very attractive.

slatyb · Answer

Of course. It’s just one reason someone is unavailable to me,

cjgsu · Answer

Yeah

Stoner710 · Answer

physical appearance yes

0112358 · Answer

Yes but it’s whatever for the most part. There are a lot of physically attractive people out there. Unless she was like 100% physically my type I wouldn’t care much. It’s the combo of being kind of attractive plus a connection in terms of desire that gets me going a lot.

Ripper_E · Answer

My eyes can't see gay. I just see an attractive woman.

broken_heart_at_48 · Answer

For me personally if I find a woman attractive it doesn't matter whether she's gay straight or in between. She's still attractive but that doesn't mean I can't keep just a friendship and not cross any lines

ColHathi · Answer

Of course ^^

letssee89 · Answer

Physically, yes. Being gay doesn't change their appearance.

RandomLoser · Answer

Lucky you know he's gay or else you'd start screaming about being sexually harassed and threatened by his dangerous penis.

Fukaroo · Answer

Yes I do still find them attractive physically. Unless they change their look because they are gay.

Iron_Man · Answer

Never been in that situation thank goodness’ Get rid of the guy that’s disrespectful wondering around in the nude

loveslongnails · Answer

Finding out an attractive woman is a lesbian doesn't make her any less attractive, to me !! It just means I shouldn't waste my time, and makes me wish I could switch my gender back and forth as needed !! LOL

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yeah. I'm not going to bother them, but I am still attracted to them.

Snowman666 · Answer

Yes that is normal

Dchrls78104 · Answer

If I find out that a girl I think is attractive is a lesbian, my opinion of her attractiveness would take an immediate nosedive.

MountAverage · Answer

It doesn't change how attractive I find her visually/physically, but overall I will lose a lot of my "mental" attraction for her. (No, not for any homophobic reasons.)

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Just because they have a different sexual orientation, doesn’t mean that makes them automatically unattractive. I’ve known a couple of lesbians that were the hottest on earth!