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As an adult if you live with your parents, sneaking off to have sex is my choice right?

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  • Yes your choice now in saying that, it's your parent's there house, there rules you got to be respected now that you are age you should have a good relationship going with your parents do you know you have a good head on your shoulders they can trust you so there shouldn't be any sneaking off anyway slow down my friend , let me ask you this are you ready for a baby are your parents ready for a baby.

    you're focusing on something that you want and that's Sex Hoping it will turn in to love it doesn't work that way,, and if it does its over with very fast i wish you would either add me or send me a message so I can explain a few things to you,, things about you and things that are going to happen if you don't pay attention . I don't want to rain on your parade I want you to enjoy life. But I want you to enjoy it every day for a long time. I don't want you to enjoy it for a couple weeks be pregnant and then your miserable for 9 months and now you have to take care of a child are you even ready for that. Sorry but three months before you and your long-distance boyfriend whatever broke up I knew what was going to happen and I wish I would have told you then this time I feel the same way I'm trying to tell you something

    • I don’t wanna have a child yet, I am not ready but if it happens I’d step up and be mature and a great mom to my baby but I’m not trying to make that happen. I used protection and took a pill. I am being VERY cautious with sex and I’ve only did it once and when I continue to do it I wanna be safe again. If I got pregnant right now I would be scared but I’d take it that it was meant to be but thank you so much for looking out for me I know you want me to be careful with my choices which is why I also did not have sex till I was 22 years old, I didn’t wanna be a teen mom and wasn’t ready as a teenager to have sex and I know I’m still young if I had a baby but everything in life is a chance and I felt ready to explore this part of my life and I’m gonna do it with care and caution.

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  • After age 18 years old you are an adult. You shouldn't have to ask your parents permission to have sex.

    With that said... you are living under their roof. So it is different but I think you are right.

    The only difference here is you are 22 which is bascially around college. So your parents are treating you still as a kid. YOu need to stand up to your parents in a strong manner. It is a point in your life where you need to set a clear boundary. You have to stand up to your parents. You should not have to sneak off to fuck a guy.

    My advice to you is to be an adult and upfront. Tell your parents "I am going to Mikey's house tonight and I will be staying over. I will see you tomorrow."

    If they fuss and complain just act like an adult woman and dont budge. Announce who you are dating and if you are staying over night.

    The bad thing is it means you are going to have to be a respectable lady. Most women who are 22 to say 27 years old are fucking around on dating apps. They are swiping guys and getting a lot of dick from different guys. Well... you can't really do that when you live with your parents and have open communication. So you should be dating more long term potential.

    • I totally get where you’re coming from. I just don’t find it to be my dads business when it comes to that and don’t feel I need to tell him but it’s like if he found out he’d go crazy but he’s always been strict and religious as I grew up but I’m not going from guy to guy either. I actually barley lost my virginity and had sex with a guy from tinder I met last week I just am saying if I wanna see people and mingle I shouldn’t have to announce it as long as I am respecting and not doing it in the house which I am not. He and I got a hotel and had sex and if I do that again it won’t be for awhile but yeah your comment is really accurate

Most Helpful Girls

  • As an adult why do you need to sneak around to do anything

    • Because it is their house and they make the rules, that is why.

    • My father is religious and old fashioned and I need to follow house rules but I’m not doing anything in the house I’m respecting the house. He doesn’t believe in doing anything before marriage but that’s not me..

    • The more he tries to control me just makes me wanna do things more. It’s not like I’m partying tho or doing drugs I just hooked up with one guy literally but to him it’s the end of the world if anything but he used to party. I just think it’s hypocritical much

  • You're old enough to make your own decisions so yea.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I would certainly think so!

  • You're over 18 so your body your rules. But some parents may not see it that way and may feel their house their rules. Best to not talk about what you do when not at home.

  • If you live with parents as an adult, it's a two way street.
    1. You should not have to worry about parents while having sex.
    2. Your parents should give you privacy, and accept the fact that you will have sex.

  • If you are an adult, when and if you have sex, is your choice. Within reason.

  • You really ought to find your own place.

  • Absolutely! But be careful.

  • it's always your choice, but it's also their choice to tell you to leave if you live with them

  • Yeah

  • Yes, of course

  • Yeah, it is.

  • Of course it's your choice. But you can still get in trouble for it.

  • Yes of course.

  • I would say so

  • Having sex is your choice. I live with my parents and my girlfriend and I have sex in the house.

  • nothing wrong with that

  • Depends on what family rules you have.

  • Why are you sneaking?)

  • Yes, except some parents say things like "if you live in my house you live with my rules", etc., and then impose rules on you as if you were 14 years old. The problem with this is that if you live with them and they do this, and you can't afford to move out, you are pretty much stuck.

    Parents will do crazy stuff to keep control of their children even when they become adults.

    • I just have sex outside of the house

    • As long as I don’t do anything to disrespect the house and I never have. I wouldn’t do something rude like that to my parents. I had sex with the guy in a hotel that we payed for

    • Sounds like it is working for you - good!

  • Definitely, it's your choice. They can't control you outside

  • Yes it is.

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