As soon as i’m done sitting on him he cums. how to solve this?

i’m his first girlfriend, he lost his virginity to me about two weeks ago and ever since he has been in the mood for sex every single day which is fine the issue is that he keeps cumming super soon. he gets so sensitive that if i just kiss his head of have my hand in there he’s always twitching and leaking. so i thought me on top would solve this. what happens is that we try a few times to get him inside me, i would say maybe 2/3 times. we have to go slow or else it’ll hurt for me. so we do that, i’m sliding him inside me slowly and as soon as he’s as deep as possible he cums. is this normal?
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  • I never had this problem. I fucked Sally for a good 20:00 or so before I blasted away in her. But, maybe it's the way he's thinking, too. Like, part of the reason it took me so long to cum in her was because I still wasn't sure she wanted me to and thought she just MIGHT stop me right before I cum. Once I realized, she has no idea when I'm gonna cum, I loosened up the flood gates and let the juices flow!
    Maybe he's the other way: it could be that he feels this might be his last time so, he wants to make it count as soon as possible.
    But, there's been LOADS of guys that have trouble holding back, at least for a while, after they get their first taste of what it's like so, it's possible he'll just eventually settle down and won't be so hot to cum so fast.
    Also, just because he came in you doesn't mean he's completely done! I've seen a guy come in a girl at least 7 or 8 times in one fuck session! So, just because HE'S done, the first time, doesn't mean YOU have to stop. Keep pumping that well and see if you can get more out of him. And. don't forget to tell him that you want more.

  • It is not normal to be that quick. I suggest you eliminate any foreplay on him and limit it to you and see if that helps. Consider using some lube to decrease the tightness feeling. Also consider using some desensitizing gel on him. If nothing works, have him speak to his doctor.

    • he gets hard from kissing so even if i wasn’t doing any foreplay on him the anticipation would being insane me would do it for him. no? i could be totally wrong, what you suggest is that i don’t touch him at all?

    • If he's always ready to go, you may want to try not touching him to see if that helps. Normally you should be able to touch and kiss a guy beforehand without causing the kind of problems you are describing. If it doesn't improve over the next few months I suggest he speak to his doctor about it.

    • Thank you for the MHO. 😊

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  • Tell him Relax. This was situation with me also in early days, however with time I learned how to control. Tell him to breath normal during love making. I will not suggest you any much oral to him but if you want for yourself you can go on peak to get pleasure 😜. I can tell you about me I give five to Orgasm to my Wife. She is super satisfied as even we have 10 Years age difference. I can control my cum for 20 min after Entering and sometimes even upto 40min and my wife get tired but don't want to leave me unfinished. Good luck.

  • It wasn't a problem for me, I can wait until she's ready, but it's common enough. Look up "premature ejaculation" for suggestions.

  • I’m married and have 30 years experience but with the woman on top I can’t control my orgasm so I’ll come super quick as well. Let him do the thrusting and tell him to slow, stop or switch so he can last longer.

  • he will get better with more practice, can he go again right away?

    • i don’t know about going right away because i always need a break but he can go multiple rounds

  • Sitting on him? You mean riding?

  • It's his first time in the tool shed and he's puttering around with his tool. Likely he'll get control eventually but suggest delay spray or thicker condom (I HOPE you are using them!).

  • Just have sex again 30 minutes or an hour later

  • Yeah especially if you both started having sex and he a newly non virgin. You just gonna keep practicing and try to go slow or do different positions so he doesn’t cum right away.

  • keep giving him practice. Make him think about food or something while having sex

  • Maybe for some but i never had that problem. I guess you're just going to have to train him lol just ride him as long as possible till he builds up some stanima

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