Gees I was alright with everything said
But seriously was the kill or hurt you part really necessary... 🤨 That was a major turn off... Your speech was great until that part!
Anyhow that's one example why we might hesitate they may seem alright or even hot and then something like what you wrote at the end comes out of their mouths lol
Anyways another reason we may not approach is because most times we drop hints and we lightly flirt and the men... Don't respond or it goes right over their heads. I mean the men need to be attentive. There are so many moments women are flirting and then don't see it.
Then if we are too bold with our flirting some men see it as us being easy.
Anyhow if there is a guy I like I usually work them slowly. It may even take months. I make my presence known I go out of my way to do the man a favor of I may even give him something... Something as simple as his fav soft drink tea or coffee... I may even offer him something I happen to be eating... A snack chip candy gum etc if I see him with something or hear him say he had something like a drink food beer etc I may tease hey where's mine or hey why didn't you invite me? I may even playfully swipe something of his and hide it...
If he catches on and reciprocates laughs and goofs back eventually brings me a drink or snack or asks me to hang out then there's hope for a date but if he just laughs but nothing more it sends a sign that he's not interesting in anything more but friendly goofing and jesting. We see it as the man "friend zoning" us.
i am taking down notes well sad sorry for scaring you about the kill and hurt part, it did not come out right Talking about dropping hints... not all of us can pick them up because there is so much mind games going on its kind of a challenging for most of the guys And you girls are not even making it easier for us too playing hard to get even if you like the guy and that is even dangerous i mean what if the guy just drop the ball while you playing slow and just vanish I see most girls are looking for hot guys attentions. and when they do get it they just do not know how to deal with it
My entire life I've been socially anxious. I was bullied a lot in middle school and somehow that trauma followed me into adulthood. The only time I was bold enough to flirt with a guy was when I was tipsy at a party in college and he ended up being taken and with his girlfriend there so that didn't go anywhere. Other than that I was never confident in myself and my looks to ever approach anyone. I convinced myself that I'm ugly even though deep inside I wanted to be noticed. I still don't have the courage to one day approach someone who catches my eye. I'm too afraid to even talk to people to make friends. I hope that one day I'll get over this fear of mine. It's been hindering me for far too long.
I feel you You can not be ugly and do not have a good body... one thing must stand either the looks or the body if you do not have it both well work on getting one for self confident You did good at party that was the first giant step you took, the sad part was that the guy belonged to someone else... i bet if it was not the case you would have hit yourself a jackpot try again life is too shot to let fear hinder you
Same reason men don't. Once people know what you want there is every chance they will deny it to you just to make themselves feel like they are better off than you. This instinct has been ground into our psyche from millions of years of watching people who don't care seeming to have an easier time acquiring things than people who do.
YES INDEED THAT IS WHY I TELL FEMALES OF THIS WORLD TO GO FOR IT TOO.. SO THEY WOULD KNOW THAT WE AS MALE OF THIS WORLD WE ARE NOT HAVING IT EASY TO ASK THE GIRLS
My girlfriend asked me.
I’ve been asked in the past, as it’s just what happens here.
see this is possible specially in these times of now its kinda normal unlike the back in the high school days
It happened when I was at school, it’s never changed. Girls have always asked guys, that’s how my mum dated my dad
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I asked my current boyfriend out. Did not want to let this one get away or take a chance by not asking him to lunch.
Fantastic!
@Still-alive Indeed. At it has turned into the best decision I have ever made. 🥰
Which is why i say women should approach more often!
Because I’m scared to put myself out there
I UNDERSTAND BUT... ONCE IN A WHILE ONE MUST GO FOR SOMETHING THAT IS HARDLY DESIRED DO NOT LET IT PASS BY BECAUSE YOU WILL NEVER KNOW
Yes I know. I have panic attacks because I only have one month left before I never see him again. And he was the one starting with it by showing interest
ALRIGHT I GET IT HE IS SHOWING INTEREST IN YOU.. AND YOU ARE THROWING GREEN FLAGS THAT SAYS GO AHEAD TAKE A SHOT AT ME WHAT IF THE POOR GUY IS HAVING A SAME PROBLEM (PANIC ATTACKS) TIME IS TICKING DO NOT LET THE GOOD THING PASS YOU BY HELP HIM OUT A LITTLE IF HE TAKE ONE STEP TOWARDS YOU... YOU TAKE TWO TOWARDS HIM
Same reason you don’t rejection not being called a whore not being desperat or needy
Maybe 15 years ago they would called you names Times has changed
Trust me societies still calls us whore slut bitches and a bunch of other things things haven’t changed they just been hush-hush
that's it right there living with societies expectations will hold you back for years till you realise that you wasted your life trying to take care of the what people are going to say or take me for... we are talking about you here not other people so called society Other people owe you nothing Trust me when i say that These people will always talk whether you do good or bad will always talk Its good to be respected by the society but at the end of the day nobody must dictate how to live your life This is life and its too shot just ease up a bit sometimes just let things follow your heart and feelings just once... that is all i am asking for trust me its a wonderful feeling Just do not over do it lol Coz they will call you names
ARE YOU SURE THIS ISN'T ALREADY HAPPENING? Or is it just not happening to you?
its possible if you can try to not get friends involved one on one mission
Why are you in all caps though? Yelling or something?
Anyway. Twice in my childhood did I give a love letter. The first time it got distributed throughout the class and in the end, torn apart by my classmates. It was embarrassing and I could live without the public humiliation.
The second time I got rejected and a few years later he told me it was so embarrassing for him.
So yeah.. those two things happening to an insecure young girl.. Did not help me with the confidence boost.
I am struggling because in my mind I often think it's embarrassing for people to be liked by me and that's embarrassing to me.
And now it's just been a long time since I've had a crush, so.
opps!! sorry for the Caps I had just about the same situation from high school to this girl was super having a crush on me. So i turned her down because she was using my friends as messengers and my friend would annoy me about her forcing me to talk to her i did not liked the attention i was getting from all of this... Until i bumped in to her at the shopping mall i was alone and so she was... no friends no pressure it was a total different environment I asked her for the first time face to face if its true that she was falling for me... than she sad yes well i asked if she had finished what she came for at the Mall? and yes she sad than i asked if she liked some Ice Cream so we can talk some more about this and the rest was history so we dated So what i am trying to say here is try not to get the friends involved
With the first letter I did get a friend involved in, but it was never any intention that anybody else should see the letter - and certainly not the whole class. The second time, nobody else was involved.
That shit still dont work lol
LOL TRY AGAIN
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