Asking a girl for sex straight away?

[HamburgerFries]

Why can't a guy just walk up to a girl and ask her for sex? What's with all the ringa marole?
I'm not saying pump and dump. I don't just want to fuck a girl and that's it. I want to continue seeing her and spending time with her. Not just for sex. I'm an Aries so I have a high sex drive.
It would be so much simpler if we didn't have to play this game of chasing.

[ushagomez]

Well you can always just ask out right however for most of us it is not an instant decision to have sex with someone. So you are likely to get rejected at first where as if you take the time to enter into a relationship after a short time thenYou can have sex

[HamburgerFries]

Why do we need to enter into a relationship? That's like buying a car but you aren't allowed to drive it until you have passed a series of tests. Which is stupid. It's supposed to be fun. Making the guy wait takes the fun out of it and it feels like a chore. Which leads to not even bothering in the first place.

[Exotic_Insinuations]

Is it than not being honest, if you just want sex, to make a relationship you don't really want? I made a MyTake about something similar, and i'm really interested in why is there a difference between men, whojust can instantly have sex with someone they find attractive, and women, who will not instantly act on finding someone sexuality attractive. It seems to me that difference makes things more confused.

[Mamamialetmego]

@Exotic_Insinuations women can have sex instantly the reason most women don't do that because they want relationship or they don't wanna look slutty.

[HamburgerFries]

@Mamamialetmego They have no choice if they look slutty. It's men that decide that. Not women.

[Exotic_Insinuations]

@Mamamialetmego I know, what i am interested in is why a psychology and sexuality of woman works that way, and why it's different from men. I know that reason is biological-evolutional, but i am interested in how much genders are able to happily coexist together with these differences. Because, when you, as a man, have biological need that is dame as need of a woman, but way of satisfying that need is totally different - that collision creates friction between genders. Is that friction healthy or not?

[Exotic_Insinuations]

I agree. In my own vision of world, it would be as normal as to ask what time it is.

It doesn't have to be every encounter with women. But i don't understand why it shouldn't be everyday, normal situation. We are being open and honest, and if we are respectful and take possible rejection without drama - she shouldn't take it as an insult.

I'm a Scorpio, i know what you're talking about.

[Mamamialetmego]

Girls need to know you little bit to find you attractive. They are not visual like you.

Also they want to trust you they want to know that you won't harm them.

[HamburgerFries]

They want to know something about me. Just ask. And I would never harm them. Why would I? I love them and would like to be smothered by them lol. I do like to bite their butt a little but that's it.

[Mamamialetmego]

But they don't know that. World doesn't work like that girls wan to know you to desire you unless you are super hot guy.

[HamburgerFries]

How they going to know me if they are so up tight?

[Andreapuss]

Sex should be seen as a need to be satisfied. Imagine being able to walk up to a girl and telling her you need to drain your balls in her and that would be enough. Pump, cum and say bye

[HamburgerFries]

I agree. But I wouldn't say bye. I'd stay with her for more time. And more sex. And then other non sexual things.

[Anonymous]

I like the idea but I’m scared of rejection (and yes , there will be some who say no)

[HamburgerFries]

But the guy would be asking you. How would you get rejected?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I read the question wrong, I thought it was if girls asked guys. Sorry bout that