Asking Girls about their satisfiction time I mean intra vaginal ejaculatory latency time in short I want to know about peemature ejaculation?

[Anonymous]

I am a 25 years old virgin boy i never touched a girl when i masterbate while watching porn i cums in just 2 minutes i think in 140 strokes of my hand up and down i want to know that if i marry a girl is it possible for me to keep her happy sexually or not i think its becoz of virginity please guide me please i dont want to be ashamed on my wedding night. I am Muslim there fore sex before marriage is haram so please you people guide me please

[CoolGuyJoe]

Yes two minutes is rather short but there are things you can do to increase the time it takes for you to orgasm during masturbation (which will also affect sex)

Sex/masturbation is 70% mental and 30% physical. I think that two minutes is how long a man would last if they aren't aware of their mind during sex/masturbation.

If you must watch porn, only watch homemade videos. Professionally produced videos do not depict natural sex, and by watching those videos you are being exposed to a false presentation of what sex is like.

During sex it is natural to speed up and slow down. You should do this while you masturbate. If you cannot continue masturbating without orgasm, you need to change your mentality. Masturbating to natural sex will help you become comfortable with the feeling of sexual arousal and you will be able to think clearly when you masturbate, and when you have sex in the future.

Pay attention to what your body tells you, and understand that sex is meant to be enjoyed by both man and woman. If you want to last longer, do not masturbate because you want to orgasm. Masturbate while imagining a sexual encounter instead. Your goal is to enjoy the sex itself and you will go longer without orgasm once you learn to become comfortable with sex. That's why I suggest you only look at homemade videos.

You should find a homemade video that you find extremely arousing, and practice controlling your orgasm while you watch the video. This will introduce your mind to self-control with sex and help you feel more comfortable during sex/masturbation.

Remember that sex can be fun and enjoyable and you should feel confident in your own sexual image.

[purplepoppy]

Most men don't last as long as they think or claim. Ignore all the bullshit about how they can fuck none stop for hours. However by your age you should have learnt to control yourself during masturbation. I suspect the eagerness to ejaculate has trained you to cum as quickly as possible. Your thrust rate of 70 per minute is pretty normal but remember a virgin girl will appreciate a slower rate say 40 to 50. I'd consider buying a sextoy you can practice thrusting into as it will stimulate real sex more accurately.

[Asker]

Sorry please dont mind but help me please when i thrust my hand fast like 120 thrusts per minute then my timing is increased to 3 or 4 mints but when slow then i ejaculate as short as my thrusts i mean 45 strokes in a minute end me in 90 seconds and i also want to know that how many thrust is enough to satisfy a girl i mean to give her an orgasam and let me know that a virgin girls Vagina is tight or losse i mean if it is tight then i think i cums very fast let me know how tight it is sorry i hope u dont mind sorry please forgive me if my words hurt u

[Avicenna]

Don't worry about that.

[Asker]

How i am so worried please help me out of this if u can

[Iron_Man]

Why don’t you talk to a sex therapist?

[Asker]

Here is no s-x therapist