Asking husband to be bi?

Is it wrong if me to want to watch my husband (in chastity) get sexually used by another man? Why do i have this desire?
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  • Why do you have that desire? No one can answer that. We all have different desires when it comes to sex and our partners. Is it wrong for you to want? No, it's not. It would be wrong if you force him to do that. You know your husband best -- whether you should even bring it up or if it just stays in the recesses of his mind.

Most Helpful Guy

  • If he is agreeable, it is alright, and would probably be hot to see. My only reservation about it is, I always wonder if you do watch him suck another man's penis, or get 'ass fucked' by another man, would that change your view, attitude of him in the future. I told a girlfriend years ago, that I had sucked off my best friend several times, and that got her hot enough to masturbate to it, BUT I was always wondering if that changed her view of me and my sexuality?

    • P. S. I had never really sucked off my friend, although, when we were young teens, he had taken his penis out (erect) in his parent's recreation room and asked me to show him mine. I didn't but just got panicky and went home immediately. She and I did talk about our 'same sex' sex, and she said she and her girlfriend's had masturbated each other at 'sleep overs' (she said they were old enough to have 'pubic hair) When I told her that I did suck him then, and the later, a lot of times, I was amazed that she got excited enough to masturbate to that 'visualization"

Most Helpful Girl

  • If it's against what he wants, then yes, it's wrong.

    You cannot force a sexuality.
    You can have the fantasy all you want, but if he doesn't want to do it, then you have to accept it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Because it’s disgusting. Will destroy the marriage and he isn’t into dudes

  • Because you don't respect him and subconsciously think you will be able to dominate him... so you find it arousing to dunk on him basically while simultaneously interviewing the Bull to take over and see if he's more dominant than you... or so you hope. This is probably all subconscious but it's a tale as old as time. We all know how this works.

  • It's not wrong to want. It's wrong to force. If you bring it up and he agrees then all is fine.

  • if he's no BI, then yes. WTF would you think it's ok

  • It's a fantasy doesn't mean you like it played out in real life

  • Not wrong, kinda hot actually.

  • If your husband is straight then yes of course it is, if my wife suggested that we would be getting divorced the next day

  • See if I was your husband I wouldn’t mind doing this if you did something for me?

  • Because you're a control freak

  • Oh 😈

  • It sounds like it would be a very erotic fantasy for you. You are probably a Dominant wanting your husband to be a sub. Go for it, forcing him while he is locked in chastity makes the fantasy better. Your husband is a lucky man!

  • Used how? Like bottoming for the other guy?

  • Yeap it is very wrong