I asked my boyfriend if we could have sex as I felt he will fall asleep and I needed closeness. His response was it is a big turn off and it is not asked but I should know I need to seduce him and never ask. I responded that I feel he is getting sleepy and just have a big need for closeness. Is it so bad to ask?
no, it's not a turnoff. Sex is a human need, and if a guy is turned off because a girl is asking, that guy has some problems with himself. It sounds like he's insecure and making YOU sound like you're the one that has the problems. Next time he wants sex, I would tell him that it's a turnoff for you and when he asks why, say to him, "Because you told me it was when I asked" and see how fast he makes excuses.
Yeah, don't feel bad over this. He has a serious issue.
Definitely not for me. I finds it hot when she initiates sex.
But if I'm extremely tired after work and no mood for sex, then I would hope she doesn't insist when I turn her down.
If you have to try and offer sex just to have physical intimacy with your boyfriend, it sounds like a shitty relationship to begin with. I’d get out and find a guy that likes to cuddle as much as he likes to fuck and can tell the difference between physical and sexual intimacy
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Is not a turn off, for many but can be for others as it sounds like you require "room service"...🤷♂️
I love it when a woman asks me to service her orally.
Not for me - I love it if my partner initiates. Makes me feel desired.
Depends on how attractive she is.
No. He's a withholding SOB.
It was a perfectly acceptable thing to ask for.
I don't know what's wrong with him. I'd love it. Hot when a girl makes the first move.
If he cares about you he should have sex. OFC I am a very horny 18 yr old guy and would want sex at every moment I could have it. How is ur sex life with him otherwise? I'm still learning and just curious.
Not at all! Your boyfriend is just an idiot. I would much rather have clear communication that she wants to have sex, that way there is no hurt feelings or feeling like I violated her.
Assuming we’re already in a relationship, absolutely not.
No its not a turn off. I wish more women should say what they want and need.
no its a turn on who every man hope to get offered by a girl 😍
I have no problem being asked directly like that.
you asking an ass hole!
Not at all. I get turned on by a woman asking for sex.
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