At some point, would you want to see a committed partner nude before agreeing to marry them, or would you rather wait for the big surprise?

And would it go even further and you would not marry them without having sex first to see if you are sexually compatible?

Why do both make so much sense to me?

Am I all alone on this one?
At some point, would you want to see a committed partner nude before agreeing to marry them, or would you rather wait for the big surprise?
Yes, I would want to see them nude but not have sex with them before marriage
Vote A
At some point, would you want to see a committed partner nude before agreeing to marry them, or would you rather wait for the big surprise?
I would have to see them nude and have sex with them to make sure we are sexually compatable before I would consider marriage
Vote B
At some point, would you want to see a committed partner nude before agreeing to marry them, or would you rather wait for the big surprise?
No, I would not want to see them nude or have sex with them until after marriage
Vote C
At some point, would you want to see a committed partner nude before agreeing to marry them, or would you rather wait for the big surprise?
OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Nude and/or Sex Before Marriage" Survey
Vote D
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  • Life is very random and sometimes very very funny.

    No matter what you choose there can be unpredictable outcomes.

    You might love someone from body and soul then you would end up marrying a stranger.

    Choices can change overtime

  • There is far more to marriage, and the commitment to marriage, than sex or nudity.

  • I would want to see a potential partner nude, have unprotected sex with them and at this late date in my life have at least one child with them before married. definitely more children after married.

  • 100% I would want to see them nude and have sex with them. You have to make sure the sexual chemistry is there. Even small things such as kissing and touching has to be on point. This is for the rest of your life... so it has to be on the same level. Of course you can teach your partner but the chemistry has to be there

  • I don't need to see her naked. I've seen plenty of naked women. I know what a woman's body looks like. It wouldn't be a surprise either way.

    Plus, you can already tell what they look like even with their clothes on (in non-Muslim countries, anyway).

  • I would have to have sex and live with her for at least a year. What if she leaves the cap off the toothpaste?

  • C! Make it more special!

  • Wouldn’t there be a point in time that you do see him almost naked? In the pool? Something simple like washing their back in the shower. Unless they’re wearing a snowsuit all the time you should get a good idea of what they look like. Are you concerned most about penis size?

  • Definitely voted B , that’s a big commitment, I need to know everything before getting married, was married once before

  • See them nude prior to marriage.

  • Will see her nude, have sex nd will have all the funs before marraige. So that it will be easy to understand each other.

  • Sex us required in any romantic relationship I am in. At least after a few months, it's forbidden before then. After those months (up to 24, she decides when). After 24 months of no sex, she's not my girlfriend.

  • Nude, sex, living together for half a year, met parents, etc. Etc.
    I'm not gonna get stuck with a crazy bitch like Johnny Depp ended up with, I'mma take my time, lol

  • That would be a big red flag to me if a Woman didn't want sex with me be for we get married.
    No I wouldn't get married to any Woman be for having sex with them first.
    God Bless

  • Our parents and grandparents did the same thing not seeing their companion nude until after the wedding day. It is a special package that is shared between two that has a bond of love.

  • Marriage? You mean that thing nobody does anymore? Women have lost their grip with reality when it comes to marriage.

  • I voted B. See them nude, eat them, fuck them. Need to know what she can do to my cock, how much she can make me cum.

    • @laurieluvsit Thank you for the Like

  • Surprise

  • Well it makes sense to wait because it gives the couple a chance to build a relationship aka bond. At the same time, you want to know if a person trust you enough to be naked around you. Kind of like the old saying Marry the person you can poop in front of.

    I guess pick a time that satisfied both.

  • Yes, I'd prefer to see you naked and have sex with you before marrying you

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