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At what age did you first have anal sex?

Do you believe the theory that it’s easier at a young age because the muscle is less toned and more stretchy?

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I asked this question because a friend told me she had her first anal at age 11. She said it felt very weird but didn’t hurt much because those muscles are more stretchy and less tight before puberty. The boy was 12 so maybe that’s why but she says that her first anal experience was pretty easy. I was not so lucky but was almost 16. So maybe age matters?
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I don’t think my friend’s experience is far-fetched. Lots of changes happen during puberty including physical development of firmer muscle tissue. According to her that muscle is 3 times as stretchy before versus after. Not sure her source but her dad is a pediatrician. I can believe it’s a factor but there are lots of others too including cultural.
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  • I was 17 the first time, and the second, and the third, and... My girlfriend in high school and I did it a ton. It started when I put a finger in her butt while she was masturbating. Let's just say she was an instant fan of having something in her butt when she came. It didn't take long before we were doing the anal deed and it became a regular thing.

    I don't think I believe that theory, that's not how the muscles in question work. They just need to adjust like any other muscle, and doing that gently over time is the best way, not just shoving a dick in it the first time. Fingers and toys before dicks.

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  • I have no answer about the theory of age on this one though that's fascinating. My wife was 30 and I was 36 when we first did anal. I was 37 the first time she pegged me. It didn't hurt for us but we had to take it very very very slow and use lots of lube.

    • Thanks for mho!

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  • I guess I was 17 or 18 the first time and it wasn't funny at all. It hurt and I felt really uncomfortable. This days I only allow it from time to time and only cause the guy is urging. It isn't that bad, but really enjoyable.

  • i was 24 and absolutely loved it! now its what i prefer more than anything!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I have never done it.

  • We were 30. But my girlfriend spent a ton of time easing into it before penetration

  • I was 16

    • and analingus? 😏

    • @scooogy maybe a little older for that like 18/19

    • @apple1996 good, make them serve you 😏

  • I am not into gay acts, I think that anal is disgusting.

    • So fuking a "woman " in The ass Is gay haha good one. So when you masterbate is that gay too? There's no way your 34.

    • I agree with the disgusting part.

  • I was around 17.

    • Did you like it

    • I didn't hate it or love it. It was pretty strange feeling and it hurt a little bit. It was just kind of uncomfortable feeling.

    • Yeah, it feels like you have to use the bathroom but it's going the wrong way

  • I was 22. Wife was 24. She hated the pain. I hated that I hurt her. That was the only time. Doesn’t matter, her pussy is like heaven.

    • And I’m willing to admit that I have done prostate stimulation with a dildo. I am against the fact that it was literally a silicone penis, but the feelings are absolutely incredible! I’m still trying to talk my wife into pegging me, but she thinks it’s gay. I keep trying to explain to her that I want her to fuck me, not some guy.

  • I was 15 and enjoyed it.

  • I tried it once and hated it, it hurts sooo much!

    • It requires a lot of prep! Can't just do it one night. But put the effort in and the rewards could be great!

  • Never, ever.

  • Mid to late 20s.

  • 51 - I did it on my then girl's request.

    Can't say that it added anything to my sex life.

  • I was 17 when I had my first anal experience

  • Was 19, she’s the only person I had anal with consistently.

    • Your friend could have been lying

  • I was 24. But she practiced with her fingers then a dildo so she would be ready for me.

  • I was 10 or 11, can't remeber

  • I was about 8 when I got sodomised the first time, I think you make a great point about being more stretchy, it did hurt a bit but enjoyed it overall, it didn't last very long anyway,,,

  • Like 12. I was experimenting. I’ll engage in anal sex nevermore.

  • 23 - bc the girls I dated at that time were more willing to try it.
    Had NOTHING to do with tone/stretch, etc.

  • I whas 18 i think

  • I'm a little on the thicker side and have never been allowed... most girls I've been with say I'm almost too much for normal vaginal sex.

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