At what age do you start to lose your sex drive?

[Anonymous]

[Screenwriter]

Everyone slows down a bit after their 20s. The real question is, at what age do you LOSE INTEREST in sex. If you are experiencing a loss of interest, that is usually a psychological issue. However, if your sex drive has been seriously diminished, it might be a MEDICAL issue. GO see a doctor to find out if you're HEALTHY.

If you are otherwise healthy, your sex drive should last a lifetime. You will not be the rabbit you were at 21, but healthy people love sex until they take the dirt nap. Having no PARTNER can affect you, but otherwise, you should be good.

[smilelots]

Great answer the drive can be still there till you die ,, its just a little bit longer to get hard to finish maybe and if your healthy , it can be close to normal for anyone just slower.

[Screenwriter]

@smilelots Exactly.

[summiter]

@smilelots Good reply!

[Cathy7734]

I have a grandfather who is 63 years old. I heard him talk to my dad, complaining that although he still thinks of sex, it doesn't get hard anymore unless he masturbates. It will only get semi-hard if he doesn't masturbate.

[Screenwriter]

@Cathy7734 Your grandfather may have some other health problems. diabetes impedes blood flow to the penis and arterial issues do also. If those two things aren't problems, as well as high blood pressure being another problem, also some medications, most men can have decent erections and satisfaction. Your granddad is young to be having those issues.

[Cathy7734]

My grandfather was diagnosed with Diabetes, type 2 one year ago. The sad thing is he always ate healthy and exercised. Diabetes type 2 runs deep in our family. So no matter how healthy you are you can still get diabetes because of genetics. So if a person had diabetes under control, can a person still have those issues?

[smilelots]

thanks and its true for me I have not lost my desire to make love have sex with the lady in my dreams or of them if i had one at this point in time ,, I just takes me a little longer to finish and If im not wrong most woman like it to last longer I hope.. I did train myself to be slower so I could enjoy the lady I was with much longer then the 5 to 10 mins other then fourplay ,, smiles

[PositiveFlight]

I’m in my 40s but my sex drive is higher than it’s ever been. Much more horny than I was as an 18 year old to twenty-something! But I can tell you exactly why. I take care of my body and focus on good nutrition and supplementation. Everything I eat now is pretty much wholesome and unprocessed. I intake food that stimulates the natural internal production of testosterone. I intake good healthy fat. I intake a lot of powerful antioxidants. Truthfully, sex drive shouldn’t decrease if one is taking care of his or her self. Additionally, a man should never experience erectile dysfunction at any age in his life. He shouldn’t need to take pills for it either. If a man is experiencing erectile issues, it’s a sign of arterial disease. It’s all about the foods we eat for which 95% or more literally kills people! High sex drive is a sign of a healthy body. Low sex drive is a sign of deteriorating health generally speaking.

[OfMiceandMen]

I believe my sex drive is what it was when I was in my 20's and 30's, however, these days I prefer quality over quantity to satisfy my urges.

I find, waiting a little longer between sexual encounters builds the excitement/anticipation of being with her again.

I see a lot people wanting sex everyday, my worry is that I would become somewhat desensitized to that kind of frequency, and I would never want sex with my partner to feel like a chore or task.

Besides, if I was in a relationship where my partner needs that much sex, I would have to discuss this with my partner to be sure, sex isn't all they are after in the relationship.

[Apple1996]

Women peak sexually at around 35-40 and men peak around 18-22 so right after that starts a downhill to losing their sex drive

[razelove]

I mean, as long as all the parts are still there, I'd imagine never. A guy I looked up to greatly was still getting out there until he died. My grandma was still going out to meet guys until she hit about 80 and her memory problems and mobility got bad.

Being able to maintain a healthy sex drive is related to health and your attitude.

[Red_Arrow]

I expect I may start to lose mine around 105.

[Sour-rose]

13? I don't know, just the growth of a asexual goddess. And ever since, i've been happy enough to just work on me.

[summiter]

The body may change physically in the amount of sex one can have. For example an older guy 50's -70's certainly can't have the same quantity of sex as an 18 year old, but the interest should or may still be there. I'm 31 and still going strong... fingers crossed!

[abc3643]

When the sex transmission went out about 2009.

[richardcory]

Depends on the person but many people still have a sex drive at least into their 70s

[asphaltrhymes]

Out of hilarity I'll just assume I'll start to lose my sex drive by my early to mid 30s. Lol. I'm 29 currently just turned 29. And I don't mind. 😋

[boggboss]

Depends on the person

[slatyb]

Depends on one's general health. Some people are active in their seventies and beyond.

[Msputiton]

Well for me it began going away at 15.

But mine kinda went away from a trauma instead of the normal reason

[AviatorTom]

I'm in my 50s and haven't lost it yet

[Drumlin2001]

Haven't yet. But OH has, she's 43

[exitseven]

I don't know but I am not there yet. I can't imagine that it will ever happen.

[SweetDisaster]

I'll let you know when I get there lol 🤭😄😆😃

[TheSpaceGnome]

It's not at any specific age, it's whenever your health declines in a way that causes that. It may happen in a week, or in 50 years, or it may never happen at all.

[douride2]

I have no idea but I will let you know when it happens.

[AsaKyo]

I have no clue, but mine is pretty medium to low now compared to when I was still a middle schooler

[smilelots]

For every one its going to be different for sure. im over 50 and i have just as strong of a sex drive as i did when i was a teenager.. just takes a little longer to get there lol but I still love that part of life..

[kellytheman]

Well I have lost my sex drive but I noticed it has slow down when I turned 32. It about the same now that I am 34 but I feel it might slow a little more when I turn 35.

[BrookeS]

Im 19 and going strong for 11 years