I lost it at around 21 but honestly its quite common for men to be completely invisible to women until they are around 30. The reason is women are only attracted to a small percentage of men which sucks big time but when mother nature says its time to have a kid then suddenly they wake the fuck up and start seeing all those invisible guys whom are now invisible. If Your in that group then You need to focus on a career and be prepared to support a family because if You are that's when You will get Your chance. If You really need to get rid of the anxiety then just hire a hooker and get it over with and just get one every now and then when You need it.
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I'm right there with you man and it legitimately doesn't matter. You could tell people you had sex with 20 different women while stationed someplace and they'd be none the wiser. You could buy an escort tomorrow and you wouldn't be a virgin anymore and nothing would be different.
Military relationships don't usually work out so it's probably for the best.
The only part that gets to me is the fantasy that there's some girl out there who has waited like I have and we'll lose it together in some romantic fashion... but the reality is I'm probably going to get bored one weekend, download tindr and meet up with some random floozy.0 0 0 0
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Nothing wrong with that. I prefer guys who want to succeed than guys who just want to sleep around. Beside it’s just sex, when you start having it you start. It’s not a competition to lose virginity.
No pressure!0 0 0 0Not at all, you're building an awesome life for yourself to be so focused. When you feel comfortable go out and look and you'll see
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10 10be a virgin until you are on your honeymoon with your opposite sex spouse ! thanks
1 1 0 0Probably after 30, like what have you been doing with your life? What have you been doing when you were 20-30 years old?
1 1 0 0Trying to find work and succeed in life. Recovering from weight problems and anxiety. Only now at 24 do I feel ready but I feel too late
Oh okay, I understand, You have lots of time, don't worry. Weight loss can warp your mind because you've been on both sides, I know how that feels. I've never had a relationship either but I'm planning to save myself until marriage.
I do like the idea of saving myself but I want to find someone I can bond with as I'm not really into hook ups
Being a Virgin is Never bad.
0 0 0 0I find it admirable that there's people who retain their virginity and don't feel pressure or anything to get rid of it.
1 0 0 0As a teen I never had any pressure which I think is why I held onto it longer, but a lot of my friends are getting into relationships now
Don't worry about what everyone else is doing because it really doesn't mean sh*t. You'll get into a relationship when it's right for YOU and someone who wants to be together with you. It's hard not to compare ourselves to others but it's very detrimental to do it.
24 is already wayy over limit but don't worry
0 0 0 0Lol that kinda makes me worry, women would be turned off
don't tell
They'd know by skill level
No age is it bad for a man to be virgin. It's a choice.
1 0 0 0No, it's not pathetic in your case.
1 0 0 0Whatever age they are on their honeymoon.
0 0 0 0There is no such age. In fact, these days it may be considered a good thing to remain a virgin, because sex seems to come with a lot of complications which make it hardly worth the having.
0 0 0 0You are over thinking it--who cares
Are you too picky though?0 0 0 0Not really, I just don't feel attraction easy. I just instantly think they wouldn't be interested
Never
It's never ok to just give up your virginity all willy nilly. 40 year old virgin, proved that0 0 0 0It's just sex. Don't worry about it.
0 0 0 0😂😂Should it be OK
Yes of course
No it not pathetic.
And it not bad that ur a virgin
And thank u for your service0 1 0 0Dude you need to focus on finding a girl that you like to hang out with and you are attracted to and things will happen. There are lots of girls who love military guys--you know this.
0 0 0 0That's true but trust me without confidence You can pass on the perfect opportunity that arrives because He will talk Himself out of making a move.
@jkm1864 You might need to get some counseling to talk it out. You don't want to continue to not be happy.
It's okay to be a virgin even if you are 150 years old.
There are many benefits in being single. So don't worry about it.
Sexuality differs from person to person. Some people are really sexually active while some don't really need it. It's just a personal preference like the food you like and the food you don't like.
If you like a dish, do you care about whether others like it or not? If you don't like a dish, normally you wouldn't eat it and we don't think about whether others like it or not.1 0 0 0Never
0 0 0 0I was going to say 25 but I think it's okay at your age
0 0 0 0Ah shit haha, I don't think many would be understanding
hmm it depends.. and have you been working in the military for long? it could be understandable
Roughly over a year, also a lot of weight challenges before then
It's always bothered me how the incel community is male-dominated
0 0 0 0I think incels hate women, I don't and I do go on dates. Also I don't blame them for my situation it's just that I've never been driven to go out with people
75+.
0 0 0 0for guys 20's isn't entirely unheard of but maybe a good time to try and focus some effort into dating , should be girls your age or slighlty younger you could date
0 0 0 0Don't get a lot of time to date, and when I do they aren't eager on long distance
there is more women in the military than years past right? is any options there long distance is kind of tough , are we talking out of the country? or out of state kind of distance
I'm British navy, so many of the women prefer men at home working normal jobs
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