At what point in a relationship do you feel okay with having sex?

At what point in a relationship do you feel okay with having sex?
My answer is D, but I don't suggest that everyone should do as I do; that's not going to happen. And everyone must do whatever makes them feel comfortable. And if it is a mistake, you've probably got to learn that on your own, by making your own mistakes. So. . . when you start a new relationship, at what point do you feel comfortable with having sex with your partner? And if you leave a comment, please comment on your current body count.
First date
Vote A
First 3-4 dates or after about a month of dating
Vote B
Once I know that we both feel affection for each other, even if we are not yet committed and monogamous
Vote C
Once we have a committed, exclusive relationship
Vote D
Once we are engaged and there is a ring on my/her finger
Vote E
Wedding night
Vote F
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  • Well, I'm a virgin, and I'm not rushing with losing it. I want to do it with someone I can trust in 100%. So very late.

  • The girl in the picture doesn't even look like she's okay with having sex. 😬

    • Some women enjoy being "restrained" in that way.

    • @OlderAndWiser Yes, I know that. I just get suspicious when I see something like that.

    • It's difficult to find a picture that depicts something suggesting sexual activity without including nudity. This was the best I could find.

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  • I don’t believe these answers. I always hear the “I’ve never done this before.” Riiiight.

  • Probably C

  • when it feels it time too

  • Idm I've done it on the first date many times lolz

  • Around 4 weeks, both are pretty comfortble with eachother and mad horny. Of course some form of monogamy should already be in place after date 1.

    Yes date one, i don't do or accept juggling in my dating life.

  • 3+ months in

  • 5 breath mints each

  • It depends

  • I’d wait up til an exclusive relationship but not if they had sex with other guys quicker than that. I’m not waiting any longer than other guys in her past have waited.

  • When we are committed to each other. Once I choose to be in a relationship, I don't want to be dating others and I expect the same from the woman I'm dating. If your sleeping with more than 1 person then your not committing to anyone and just playing the field. Your not what I'm looking for.

  • As long its a female who was born a female and has female parts, then the first second of meeting

  • Basically if its a girl I’m attracted to and comfortable with, time doesn't matter

  • Wedding night

  • never

    wtf is wrong with you

    are you some kind of sex pervert?

    • @Jouth No, he is not. Lol. @OlderAndWiser's questions aren't troll questions like some others on here. They're open-ended discussion topics.

  • Half the girls picked first date? What a crock. Where's the real results?

  • I go for natural passion (no blind dates, setups, expectations, etc). My general pattern is we start to clearly communicate that we are attractive enough to want forms of intimacy from each other.

    The minute we start having sex, I usually prefer to start an exclusive relationship since I don't like one night stands. To me, the act alone separates her from anyone else in the world at the current moment.