Obviously, it's not something you'd want to mention straight away. That's just a good way to get laughed at, and a total stranger often has little respect for your privacy.
But it's certainly not something you'd want to surprise a partner with either—that's probably the worst way for them to find out, by seeing. That's just asking for trouble.
So, at what point after first meeting someone and before getting intimate with them do you think would be the best time to bring it up?
I would honestly like to know it from the beginning. It’s just I dob’t care about his size or shape but the completely nonexistent penis would be a deal-breaker for me.
It’s a different thing if he was already my partner and lost his penis in an accident or something, but if that’s not the case, then I am not okay with a man who doesn’t have a penis. I’d like to have children with him someday naturally. So… How is that going to work?
I’d appreciate him telling me right away.
I understand that it's a dealbreaker for many people, and I would also like to know right away whether the person would even consider staying, but I'm sure you understand that that's not my only concern when deciding whether and when to tell someone. Its one thing to make the first move, it's a much more risky thing for that first move to include very private and negative information. Especially if it's real life instead of online.
I'd say as soon as things are on the middleroad of taking the direction towards intimacy - ie. you kissed and maybe she started to let her hands wander into certain zones.
Then it's be ideal to sit down and have a clear chat about it, what caused it and how she may feel about it.
I won't deny that she might want to break things off over this, but generally women aren't that ready to bail out and fickle as we like to believe them to be. If they really like a guy, they can accept many things. Of course, the guy should also do his part - if penetrative sex is out of the question, is he willing to satisfy her in other ways, such as orally and manually?
I've sort of had this experience when I struggled with depression-induced ED, and when I was up for sex but the part wasn't, I navigated it this way.
Proper time to share that information is when you feel safe and secure in the relationship to trust being sexual with them.
Do you mean you had surgery and your penis was removed?
Thank you for the answer, but I stand by what I said that discussing it with strangers is a bad idea.
I respect your decision. Private things are meant to be private
Hm 3rd date I'm invested but not going to end it!
Really that would be amazing always wanted a smooth lover! To just grind on and not worry about being pregnant!
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Why would a man not have a penis? Did it get cut off?
Could be trans
That’s what I was thinking
Why would you wanna know? It's not your business.
Before the date
Before which date?
Considering how rare that would be you would have to bring it very soon
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