Baby or no baby?

Okaaay.. so the topic of babies has been a discussion in our house for over a year now. We had originally decided on this year to start trying to conceive. Last week my boyfriend and I had a talk about him wanting to wait awhile longer. I had told him that that was fine, and I understood where he was coming from and that I know he has our best interests in mind and if he thinks we should wait then that’s what we’ll do. Well the next day one of his friends announced that him and his wife were expecting. We went out with some friends a few days later and had some drinks. He kept bringing up his friends who are expecting while we were out talking about how he really wants to have a son. When we came home we ended up having some amazing sex.. well while we were having sex he kept asking me over and over again if I wanted to have his baby and if I wanted him to cum inside of me. So of course he did. The next day he seemed fine with the decision and even made cute ornery jokes about it and whatnot. Considering the talk we had a few days prior to that I’m honestly just really confused. I know I should probably just talk to him about it, but I wanted to know your guys thoughts/opinions first.. do you think this was just drunk dirty sex or do you think his opinion may have changed?
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  • My ex-wife and I had planned to have a baby once her new car was paid off and stuff, but we weren't using protection and ended up making a baby sooner rather than later.
    We were both fine with it because it was in our future plans regardless.
    I think you and your boyfriend are probably emotionally ready, but it is concerning that you guys didn't get married. Not that marriage is great, but it is a sign of serious commitment. Either way I hope you have a healthy baby, good luck with everything.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It always baffles me how people can change in a split second 180 degrees about life altering decisions. That they were so sure about just moments before.

    It’s an observation, no criticism. Maybe there is no real reason he changed his mind or the friends with the baby did. Impregnation remains hot, whatever way you turn it, let’s just hope and assume he’s responsible about it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Why do you want to get ideas from here first? Are people here your family, no. Are people here an expert witness, no. Is not it? Maybe if someone here says there is no baby, will you stop getting pregnant or will you have the baby aborted? No baby for me. But of course, if you are enthusiastic and want to be a mother, you must have a baby. May god make it easy for you. ☺️

    • I’m not asking if I should or shouldn’t have a baby, did you read the post? I’m asking about whether or not it seems my boyfriend has changed his mind or if this may have just been a drunken night. I came here to seek advice because that’s what the website was made for…

  • The easiest thing is to just talk to him. Maybe it was the alcohol talking or maybe the other couple expecting changed his mind. Communication usually clears things up. If you’re not comfortable bringing it up, just have sex with him again and see if he cums inside you or he pulls out. Then you’ll know.

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  • basically, until you've both talked and agree to it out of drinks and such, take it as his opinion hasn't changed

  • I could have been a bit of the drink talking or it could be that his friend expecting it made him think that maybe now is the time, and his mind asking you during sex was "the talk".

  • If you have to ask here I say no baby