Back with my friends with benefits and still same problems?

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

I started to see a friends with benefits i didn’t see in a long time cuz he was just giving me problems from trying to date & confuse me for nothing which I of course said no 2 I knew he was just doing too much and also he when we fuck he doesn’t last long like he’ll fuck me for a good min or 2 (he’s 27 I don't know if it matters) but anyways I only put up with it because he’s the biggest I’ve ever had and it just feels so good but he just doesn’t last and he’ll take a break in between that’s just super long and I always end up irritated because I end up talking to him for a long long long time waiting for round two and when he gives it to me it’s another small round
And also he always ask to cum inside me which is just irritating and I just found out he doesn’t even believe in abortions and has 3 bms and one of which He says he was just fucking and they had a kid and how she wanted to be with him but he said no cuz she has 4 other kids and they were just fucking and had a kid which is fucking scary ass shit to hear him say.
Also once he actually came in me and sure enough I got pregnant and I was PISSED, I told him we had to go to the clinic to get an abortion and he said he would take me (he didn’t tell me he wasn’t anti abortion at this time but he tried to convince me not to worry I can keep it if I want ) but anyways he didn’t end up trying to take me and just acted like nothing happened and I was just mad as hell and I ended up miscarrying thankfully before I actually got the chance to go to the clinic myself because I’m not going to just have a kid from him.
I stopped talking to him but after like a year of him trying to hit me up I finally did cuz he’s the biggest I’ve ever had and he just does it so bomb & tbh I forgot a lot of the bad things about Him other than that and anyways I seen him but it’s like the same thing all over with him.
So my questions are why can’t he last long?
Am I on the right track with thinking he has a breeder fetish?

[Valnac]

That is definitely not a friends with benefits situation.

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

It is a friends with benefit situation

[Valnac]

A friends with benefits is sex only. A boyfriend is what you describe.

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

It is only sex And I said no to being his girlfriend or cumming in me so it’s not

[Valnac]

Understood

[bklynbadboy1]

Friends with benefits is a colossal waste of time I don't see why people even bother with that

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

Because it’s a whole lot easier than committing when they aren’t that special one for you and you still want to have sex

[bklynbadboy1]

So just get that special one

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

If I could find them I would do it but I haven’t so I can’t

[bklynbadboy1]

I get it but your a pretty girl you can do better than him he's a waste of your time he's not even fuckin you right and he butter in you without your permission and got you pregnant. Isn't the point of being friends with benefits to get good dick with no strings attached

[havingfun101]

I'm in the top top 3% x 1% & I can stop evacuation with certain muscles... I prefer Autoblow A. I. to women, ask me why.

[Snowman666]

You make bad life decisions

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

I make good ones I’m not saying yes to being his girlfriend or letting him cum in me. If I want to have sex with someone I can.

[Snowman666]

You are making major decisions on soso sex with him, for a minute of pleasure. With the outcome being pregnant by a real "winner". take a step back see what you want for goals in life. Then look at the path to those goals. I doubt your goals are to be baby mama number 5 or have any possible relationship partner question your past relationship choices and judge you from that. Big picture comes into play of your life without you realizing it. Then as you are older you reflect back and consider your alternative paths. Majority of people regret those paths, try not to be one of them. because this screams jerry springer story lead up.

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

I just said I would have went to the abortion clinic and if it were to happen I still would like I said before I wouldn’t want a child from him, the fuck I can see what you obviously r seeing, I just wanted the sex because unfortunately he’s just really the biggest I’ve had and it’s not easy to say no. And not a chance I’m not gonna be his bm, that’s way too much

[Snowman666]

I am just saying from my own life experiences. What we want short term doesn't lead to what we want long term. Shit will happen from short term decisions that will drasticly affect your long term without you realizing it. Trust me, if you stand back and look at your life from a outside prospective you will make better decisions that you will charish later in life. Because later comes quicker then you can imagine.

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

There won’t be any actual affects, I won’t ever date him or have a kid with him and will make sure of it

[Snowman666]

There is always an affect i promise you. Take it from someone who made bad decisions. You won't realize the affect until much later. Maybe the affect is only big guys can please you later on. Maybe your vagina becomes to lose to please the man who one day sweeps you off your feet. Karma is real don't get bite by it like i did. But what good can you see coming from this, besides 2 minutes of pleasure?

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

I already wouldn’t date a guy without a big dick so that’s not gonna change and it’s easy for me to find them so not a big deal but yes his is by far the biggest so I really can’t resist and also our vaginas don’t loosen with dick just because it’s large, we push out babies our vaginas can stretch and close up just like before again the only thing that can change you is a baby

[Dave31989]

friends with benefits, is for losers

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

How is it only for losers

[Dave31989]

how not

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

Because it’s just sex without having to commit

[ehabmedhat3]

I think he want u to have sex only, please run away

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

I only want sex too that’s why I say no to being his girlfriend, I know what time it is with him

[ehabmedhat3]

Good be careful

[Nayyr]

I lost braincells while reading this

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

Grow up, no mames

[Lonelywolfxl]

You so ignorant 😡

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

And you got a bigass head LMFAOO

[Lonelywolfxl]

Okay 😕

[Anonymous]

Why would you expect him to be different?

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

I didn’t I genuinely forgot a lot except the miscarriage thing but yes I only did it because the sex is super bomb

[Opinion Owner]

All 60 seconds of it? Are you a size queen?

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

Lol i forgot he was that quick to finish and he always acts like he’s not but than he takes the longest break and I’m like this didn’t really almost just came or what?

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

And no but he’s the biggest and It’s hard to resist

[Opinion Owner]

How much bigger than mexican guys?

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

How did you know he wasn’t Mexican? 😂

[Opinion Owner]

You have said before that you only date black guys

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

Noo i think you may be confusing me for someone hun, I don’t only date black guys

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

Although this particular guy is black

[Opinion Owner]

That's possible. sorry about that

[laPrincesitaRoxi]

No it’s okay no worries :)