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Sex has always been an interesting topic to me. I didn't always appreciate sex. In fact sex did not really interest me until I was almost eighteen. But I met one person who changed that for me. He loved the BDSM world; he was a dominant.
I had no idea what that meant at the time and to him I was just an innocent little lamb. He's always taken interest in me but I never understood why until we started dating.
He wanted to break me out of a shell but I had no idea I surround myself in. I wasn't sexual in the slightest. I didn't care what everyone else did I was going to wait for the one person that I thought wouldn't damage me. I think I can honestly say at one point I was actually afraid to have sex.
Soon after we started dating I became intrigued, intrigued by the way he talked, walked, acted, the way he looked at me, it was something I can only describe as a primal look. it was needy, and no longer being a virgin in any sense of the word I now know that look very well, lust.
My idea of what sex was very limited, innocent in a way. He constantly have to explain things to me he directed me until I got the hang of it on my own. He wasn't directing me because he thought I needed instruction he was directing me because he needed to. He needed me to listen to his every command to his direction.
He introduced me into the world of BDSM very slowly and now knowing him best I have no idea how he restrained himself so well. He's the master of control, in a sexual sense that is. Even outside of that he has that same tone with me but not because he's trying to be controlling thats just how dominant are. They tend to be the leaders in a relationship. And all lambs need a the shepherd.
For those of you who read this who know the world of BDSM very well, then you probably won't need this but I am going to share it anyways. For those of you who like to be kinky but don't think you're part of the BDSM world you might be surprised and just what is considered BDSM. For those of you who are curious on if you're more of a vanilla lover ( someone who makes love but doesn't do anything but swich positions occasionally and speaks softly to their lovers.) or a wild and far from tamed in bed, or maybe your in between.
For those of you who want to know where you belong in statistics then click the link below
this is an 8 page questionnaire of just how kinky you really are. when you finish the test it will give you percentages of where you stand in different catigories of the vast bdsm world. when you get to the end, in the top right hand corner it will say click your PDF in blue. if you click that it will show you three graphs and explain the break down.
If you're curious about my results click this link below.
https://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1745992
message me if you have any questions, and I will be happy to help in any way that I can😇 #BDSM #sex
What Girls & Guys Said
0 1I don't even remember the last time I had vanilla sex
Oh wait I never had it