Be honest, is it weird for someone to be 16 and have 0 romantic or sexual experience?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Not really, you're just past childhood. Give yourself some time to actually grow up into adulthood. Don't be pressure to have sex.
    Concentrate on your life ambitions, your aspirations, do the work to become a value to society. When you least expect it a great guy will come into your life and you'll be in a much better place to share it with him. Develop a meaningful relationship and the sex will come naturally.
    As a society, in western culture, children are WAY over sexualized. You're just not ready yet and that's fine.

  • Of course it's not weird! It's even illegal in most countries to have sexual experiences at that age. I don't know if someone's pressuring you or something, but remember to stand your ground and say "no". If you don't want to do something, just say no. Nobody can force you to do anything, and, trust me, if they do get their way, they won't be thankful enough to you, as you might think

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm 21 and have zero romantic or sexual relationship. I don't think its weird, evryone has different priorities and believes.
    Anyone who says its weird needs to grow up. And its none of their business either way.

  • Not at all. Go at your own pace, you'll be so much happier if you do. It isn't a race. Teens talk a big talk, but it is quite common at 16 to have little to no experience.

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  • No - most of my friends were in their 20s when they dated for the first time and some did not date at all and just had arranged marriages

  • Asexual is real. Its normal.

  • It might be unusual, especially nowadays, but it's meant that a girl is not a slut and that's good.

  • Nope, I did not have my first real relationship till I was 16 and did not lose my cherry till I was 17.
    Do find the right guy to grow and learn with. Do not rush it or settle for the wrong guy.
    It is worth the wait.

  • At 16, no not at all. Once you hit 25 to 30 and haven't had any experiences then it starts getting a little weird.

  • Oh no not at all, I didn't start being active sexually until I was 17 and I didn't have sex until I was 18.

  • No it seems pretty normal, I see posts like yours at least once per day on here

  • In the real world, not at all. Just in the artificial Cosmo world.

  • No.
    it becomes more unusual a few years later. 16 it’s common to have had sex, or not.

  • Absolutely not. It's pretty common for people in their late teens and even early to mid twenties to have little or no romantic or sexual experience.

  • No, not overly weird.

  • Yes is natural we where all born to love, learn, play, have fun and mature.(*^ω^*)

  • Not really. A lot of girls stay virgins until after 18 and there's been an extreme increase in the amount of men that have not had any sexual experience up to 30+ years in age.

  • no its not weird, a 16 year old should be focusing in school, not spreading their legs

    • or clapping cheeks

  • No. I didn't have my first girlfriend until i was just a month before i was 17

  • everyone does things at their own pace

  • No, not at all, that's not uncommon and you need not dwell on it

  • No, don't be silly, Its fine. You have lots of time yet get all the experience you desire.

  • No, it's not

  • No, but that is on you to get.
    Being out with friends , getting cheeky at the right...

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