Be honest: when you typically start having sex with a new person do you use protection or not?

Honestly I've never really worn condoms, I have a hard time getting off even without one sometimes so I definitely do when I wear one, I've only had 2 partners though so I don't go around having unprotected sex with just everybody
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  • I have real trouble staying hard with a condom on so sex is not very enjoyable when I use them. So I usually leave it up to the girl when I am having a hook-up off tinder or something. I do try to convince them to go without sometimes by telling them I'm clean and stuff. But honestly, condom use is not high among girls on tinder anyways. I know going raw with a stranger is not a good idea but if you look at the actual statistics the transmission rate of STDs from girl to guy is crazy lower than a guy to a girl so the risk is not that large. I have even had unprotected sex with a few girls who told me that they had some STD while I was drunk and not thinking and never caught it.

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  • I have been lucky enough to have had a lot of great sex with a lot of great girls (not bragging... just a fact). I I wore a condom every time. I did not want to be a young unmarried daddy or get an std. All of my orgasms were always fantastic. Try some more foreplay before sex.. just get naked and have her start out with a handjob to get you closer to an orgasm then slip it on and enjoy the sex?

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  • Always, always, always condoms.
    I am not on the pill or using any other contraceptives, and I don't plan on getting an STD, so always use condoms.

    If the guy don't have any or he won't use it, then there will be no sex.

  • As someone who already has an std I leave it up to my partner.

    • It's good you bring it up

    • I got an std when I lost my virginity so it's information I've had to disavow to every person I've slept with. Although it helps me decipher if someone truly likes me

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  • Always. I'm not on the pill or anything, and you best believe he better have a condom, otherwise, there won't be any sex. xD I'm not looking to get pregos over here.

  • Well, I've only had one sexual partner who is still my current girlfriend, so there is no "having sex with a new person" for me. However, I will admit that when we did it for the first time, I started with a condom but ended up taking it off and we both preferred it unprotected even if that wasn't the smartest idea. Now she's on birth control so we never use a condom at all.

  • So far, the only time I've ever used them was to beat off so I wouldn't have anything to clean up and wouldn't have to worry about where to cum at the last second, hindering the amount of cum I was about to spew.

  • I hardly ever used condoms. I was really stupid and careless I never got an STD and never got a girl pregnant until I was married.

  • I've always gone bare with a new friends with benefits or someone I'm dating and are not ashamed of enjoying sex without protection. My previous partners and I have always been tested first so we can enjoy sex the way it should be.

    It's a major turn on going raw straight up with a new partner.

  • No she was my serious girlfriend and she’s clean

  • If a girl is a slut i need to use condom also for blowjob. If she's a good girl I skip. If I don't know, I try to understand.

  • No. I’ve never made a boyfriend wear a condom. Maybe it’s reckless but have always just done it bare.

    • I've always done it bare with a new regular friends with benefits or someone I'm dating too. It's not reckless at all. We simply enjoy sex unprotected which we're used to.

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  • I usually leave it up to the guy