Because I am Virgin I Said to my friend that I want Virgin guy but she Said that you can not find How can I answer to her?

I am Virgin and i want someone who is Virgin too. Of course if i love someone it does not matter but my priority is like that right now. I am 25 and my friend says that you will never be able to find. ( in where i live, Virgin girls are more than Virgin guys because hymen is important) men can have sex with their girlfriends or if they do not have they go to the escorts. Anyway i Said that i want this but the what my friend Said offended me.
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  • How are you I u going to find a virgin? If you advertise that's what you want you could get a liar. Most virgins you've seen you've probably turned down cause they aren't the best looking guys so you'll probably have to settle for a chubby or slightly ugly guy to get a virgin.
    Pretty sure you won't find a virgin that's got 6 pack abs that's for sure.

    • It does not matter if we love each other i am okay with that.

    • Still think it will be hard to find a virgin, most guys are ashamed of it so they don't say it willy nilly, the ones proud of it are probably saving themselves for marriage. Pretty sure the only guy that wants to loose their virginity will be chubby or creepy guys. Look up Skippy on YouTube, that's what I think you'll get stuck with.

    • I understand but i am not chubby or creepy i think. yeah i am shy person i accept that maybe He can be shy and Virgin too? Can’t He be?

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  • Why worry about what she says just focus on your goal and let your actions do your talking

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  • ignore her.
    and get a grip, if someone saying that offends you, hunni life is going to beat the shit out of you

    • How can i answer to her? I just want to say her to something that makes her shut up.

    • "okay, thanks" and move on. trying to be a bitch back is stupid and petty. and not worth it for her comment? like, grow up.

    • I can respect other people’s choices even i do not agree with them. So, of course i want them from others too. I see and think that this is disrespectful manner. This doesn’t mean ‘’trying to be bitch back’’ this is about expressing yourself.

  • Ignore them, it may be a bit hard but there are some trust me. I am same as you.

    • I want to say something to make her shut up. It is my choice. I know that it is hard. But i want that.

    • Are you a virgin for religious reasons? Is your country religious?

    • Kinda. But not completely. I haven’t had any boyfriend so i didn’t experience anything. You?

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  • Why would that offend you. She/he just shared his/her perception.
    Having a filter in your type of guy will make it little difficult but then it's not impossible. You have a genuine ask to have a virgin partner because you too are a virgin.
    I know of such men who desire to have a virgin partner and that's totally fine. Take it positively and go for it. We all have our preferences.

    Let me know of how you think of it.
    Cheers.

  • Finding the right person is hard enough without making extra problems for yourself.

    • I know about that. I do not say that if i find someone who is not Virgin i will break up with him i just say if i find someone like me i will feel happier.

    • But if that is the case then why even bother talking / thinking about it? The fact of the matter is that you rate this as being important, so it is in the scales there somewhere. What that means is that all other things being equal you would choose an objectively inferior man who was a virgin to an objectively superior one who was not.

    • I haven’t experienced anything so i feel very bad when someone who i love experienced it makes me think so much. I don’t judge or criticize them but i know that i will care too much. Many people who are virgins care about this. And i do not think He and i are inferior.

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  • Seems unlikely but I don’t know where you live.

  • I'm sure you can.

  • You can find someone like that, but your first time may be a bit painful if he doesn’t know what he is doing.

    • In my age it is so hard :(

    • Yes. You’re probably right. May I ask why do you want to be with a virgin man? Inexperience in men can result in unpleasant experience for the woman. Men can take their pleasure pretty easily. For women, the pleasure has to be achieved with patience and knowledge of how her body and mind works. That kind of result comes with experienced men.

    • It doesn’t matter He will get experience with me too. I know what you mean but even i know that i prefer the Virgin one. Maybe it is because i am Virgin too.

  • Virgin guys your age are far and few between. finding one wouldn't be easy

    • I will try my best

  • I don't know, I'm virgin but I'm not looking for a virgin girl just looking for anyone who likes me 😁

    • Will you marry with her? If you do not have experience except for her but but she does have?

    • Maybe, also depends if she will want to try some new kinks and other things.

    • Like what?

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  • Try to find someone that will love you, virginity is not the most important thing. Maybe the guy was cheated on and now he's alone but not a virgin, the same can be said for a girl.

    • No, of course i know. It is not about the most important thing. But i will be happy if i find like that Virgin but if i love him it will not matter.

    • Ok good luck. You could find someone you love.

    • I hope He can be Virgin 🙏🏻🙏🏻

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  • finding a virgin guy is the easiest thing in the world. It's the thousands of guys you friend zone left and right

    • In where i live it is not easy

    • it doesn't matter where you live. you're just fining excuses now because of your astronomical standards. typical entitled female behaviour

    • I do not have standards. I just want someone virgin. You do not even know me. I Said that many go the escorts. It is not easy to find virgin in their 25 or less. But i want like that.

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  • There are tons of virgin guys and most women including you will probs not be interested

    • I am Virgin and i do not think i am so bad. He can be like me too. I do not want the best, because i am not like that too. I am shy maybe he is like me too.

  • You can find virgin guys, bug as you get older the likliehood decreases

    • 😥😥

  • Why would you want virgin guy?

    • Because i am Virgin myself

    • So doesn't mean he needs to be virgin... non virgin guy can probably give you better first time experience as well

    • Yeah, for the first time experience is good. But if marry with him or have a serious relationship He will be my first and last but i will be the Number that i do not know

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  • You are a bit old for that demand, though a virgin 18 yr old should be easy to find.

    • :( :(

  • mmm men do not place any value on being a "Male Virgin" they all want to be "Great Lovers" and that requires practice... so finding a "Virgin man" over the age of 17 will be impossible...

    • It hurtss. So i will get some experience to get over it

  • Don't worry I am also virgin, I don't know where you live but in india you can find lots of virgin guys at their old age. because here 40%girls and 60% boys. You may know that in our old persons live in India they love boys as son, and they killed girl just because they are girl, not everyone but there was some people did that and gradually increase boys rates.
    And my condition is also as like you, I want a virgin girl. 😊☺️

    • I do not live in India. But in where i live guys themselves say that ‘’you can not find any Virgin guy, if they say to you that ‘’ i am Virgin’’ He is a liar. So, because of that i feel bad. They say that everyone has sex by finding someone and if they can not find they go to the escorts.

    • But there are many Virgin girls because people here care about virginity of girls a lot.

    • Then you may choose an indian guy if you wish. And I am telling you the actual truth. but I didn't believe that every guys lost virginity, i never had any girlfriend and never did any kiss, i am very busy with my study and of i belong from very poor family, and most the time I think how can I overcome from this situation. Peoples from rich family they have lot of time to do their love and sex, but as a poor i personally knew that it's not possible to break the virginty in our early age. Still i single just bc i am poor and thinking about future not the sex. Sex is not important, food is more important and how I can live better that's thought works always in my mind.

  • Which is that area where there are less virgin males? Virgin male are available every country and area

  • You'll find plenty of guys that are

  • Sure u will find virgin guy

  • funny virgin hunt!

    • Of course i will never find someone here 😂

    • Virginity is too over rated.

  • not true. I was a virgin before I met my wife.

    • So didn’t you care?

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