Been seeing this guy why doesn’t he want to do it?

[Anonymous]

I saw this guy twice. I’m 22 and he’s 24. He was a mutual friend from college. First time we hungout we watched a movie, he didn’t try anything on me, we kissed a bit and we talked and had a good time. He told me he wanted to take me on a date. So the second time we hungout I asked if I could come over, he said no he’d rather go on a date, but I insisted on coming over for another movie and he said fine. We kissed and he invited me to his bedroom (this is more of a physical relationship for me so I went) and when we both get super into it and undressed he stops me and tells me he doesn’t want to have sex. Said he wanted to get to know me more first. So I’m in his bed naked and he didn’t want to have sex with me? I was so confused why, he said it wasn’t me and blah blah. Then after 2 hrs of talking and kissing more I finally seduced him into doing it. Took him awhile to get his 🍆 working but It ended up being fantastic and now he wants to take me on a date still. Is this guy looking for a relationship? Why didn’t he want to sleep with me? Was he nervous about himself?

[Sjoerd85]

I also wanted to take my time before actually having sex. In my earlier experience, first time sex with a new woman is never very good sex. This is because you don't really know each other yet; what turns you both on, how your partner reacts to certain ways of being touched... If you dive straight into full sex, and it is not an ideal experience due to you not knowing each other enough yet, that is going to negatively impact your attempts to start a long lasting relationship.

For this reason, I did let her see me naked pretty fast (I'm a nudist, and being naked all the time, at least when we are at home, is very important to me), and we got physical fast, but I waited with actually having sex longer (a month longer perhaps) than she would have liked. During this time, we did spend time exploring each others bodies in bed, but not much more then that.

I do not regret this... First time we did go all the way, it was pretty good, and next times it only got better. We married two years later.

[PositiveFlight]

It’s truly sad that in this day and age this is even a question! It’s sad that a man wanting to actually get to know a woman for who she is first and falling in love is such a foreign concept. This is but one of the many reasons why people’s love life and families are so screwed up nowadays. If love even occurs, it surly gets started on the wrong foot with the wrong foundation. Sex is not a foundation. Love is the foundation.

Kudos to this guy for actually respecting you enough to think of you as a person instead of a sex object or a fuck buddy. Instead of being weirded out or trying to push him into sex, why don’t you let yourself actually experience a true love relationship before the sex and experience how a woman should be treated which is a rare thing nowadays.

[Anonymous]

It's the Anonymous Guy-Pretending-to-be-a-Girl Fake Question of the Day!

[BADASS22]

😂😂

[Marcuslrh]

Yeah he wanted to take it slow get to know yoi and see if your a fit for a relationship before having sex respect to this guy for trying to do it the right way instead of rushing into the bedroom.

[artgorgeous]

Well.. maybe he knew that you didn't want anything serious and because of sex with you he'll want you more, and in case he won't get you after, he'll be suffering more after trying you out.

[Anonymous]

He is simp...

[PositiveFlight]

No, if he’s a real person, he actually has some respect and decency, mixed in with some responsibility. Do not mistake a Simp with someone who is actually honorable and trying to be a real man instead of just another dumb ass fuck boy