I have boyfriend and I'm a Christian. My boyfriend is usually horny I guess it's because he haven't had sex since he met me and I love that he hasn't forced me to have sex... although we almost had sex one Friday night, I'm grateful it didn't happen.
I don't know what to do... I feel like every time I kiss him, he gets horny.
That's a normal reaction. Don't worry about it. Its good that you're keeping your beliefs. I respect that. Don't do anything you don't wanna do. Since he hasn't forced anything means that he respects you.
If you and him have agreed to not have Sex then he’s gotta respect that boundary. You can kiss but does he know at what point in foreplay he must stop?
yes he does.
What’s that point? And if he knows then what is your worry?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!There's nothing wrong in being horny,
As long as you keep it all corny,
And focus your attention on your only partner,
For whom it should be an honor.
You girl may be happy he is not impotent,
Without this, it'd be a bit redundant,
For if he's able to direct all his lust to only you,
It means his attention can be loving too.
When the release is accomplished and done,
All his energy can be put to use and fun,
For if it's focused solely on his mate,
His commitment will never be late.
He'll be able to concentrate and stay focused all day,
Whether he's working or out to play,
And when night comes and it's time for bed,
He can look forward to his partner instead.
So don't feel ashamed for being horny,
Your committed partner will never be bony,
Just make sure all your lust and desires,
Go to your partner and never to liars.
Yes, you are not allowed to kiss him and maybe at most hold hands until engaged/married. Anything else, is torture to him.
or you can permit him to masterbate beforehand so his T is low.
your call...
Thanks for the response
Dump him, he's only going to drag you down to his level.
It depends. You're possibly right, but the asker didn't describe everything. You can't expect someone to never ever be horny. The question is how much of a pleasure seeking coward he is and does he want to work for it or not.
Their values don't match and it is always going to be a cause of friction in their relationship.
@Dіldophobe lol I think he's willing to work for it.
You seriously expect to not be?
Did I say that?
You mention your boyfriend being horny twice implying that it annoys you.
It doesn't
What is your question?
Are you waiting for marriage or for some other reason?
He's a guy, guys get horny, it happens
Perhaps you might consult the Song Of Solomon.
Don't take risks. You don't want a guy who is just gonna jump at the opportunity to smash even if you didn't think straight one day.
If you are horny too, why not have sex? Many single Christians do.
Wait till marriage. A year of relationship should be long enough for You to propose to Him. I’m glad You are keeping faith and He’s not raping/dumping You.
Thank you.
Not a problem! 🖤
Sure he do..
And u should give him his needs 😅
Guys get horny very easily. Kissing and being close to him is going to arouse him. I’ve even noticed guys sometimes get erections just from dancing with me. If you’re going to be in a relationship with a guy, these things are basically a given. There’s nothing you can do about it. The only question is whether he respects you enough to not act on that arousal until you’re ready. If he’s not pressuring you, then it’s all good.
he's not pressuring me and he always says to me "When you're ready I'm here"
Good. That’s what you want to hear from him. Don’t feel bad that you’re making him horny. That’s a natural reaction from him. Take it as a compliment.
okay thanks
Is he willing to stay chaste until marriage?
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