I like to straddle him and stay on my knees, then just rock back and forth. I would do that where I was.. almost grinding on him for months to get a better feel on the motion which initially felt super awkward for me. Only about 6 months later did I start going more up and down, though still not too much since I was super scared I'd hit a bad angle and y'know... give him a penile fracture. :P
But yeah so you can try the grinding thing. or up and down, see which one you like better. I personally find staying on my feet and going up and down almost like a leap-frog to be really painful, but you can try that too. It differs greatly from girl to girl, so don't be too worried to ace it right from the start. Tell him to give you some feedback on what he likes best, make necessary adjustments as you go and just enjoy a position where you're in control + can be kissing most of the time. :)
Be confident. Push him down on the bed and straddle him. If he's more into titties, face him. If he's more of an ass man, reverse cowgirl. Don't just sit on it lol, you'll find a natural rhythm as you go along. Play with your clit if you're facing him, lean down and kiss his neck. Just roll with it.
Yeah but if your doing reverse cowgirl your ass has to be big... because that's the whole point of reverse cowgirl is I want to see a girls BIG ASS. a lot of girls are too self conscious and worry their ass is too big... I love a girl with a big ass.
It's gonna hurt the first time being on top. He will be hitting your cervix.
Just do what feels good to you and he will love it. 95% of the turn on for a guy is how into it his girl is. So if you enjoy yourself, he will enjoy himself too
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