Best guy friend touched me while I was sleeping!?

So my best guy friend and i have been friends for about 10 years now. I was laying on my couch watching a movie and he came over from the back and spooned me, which isn't much for us. But i had pulled an all nighter before and was really tired. I fell asleep during the movie but woke up to something weird. His hand was up my shirt, and my sports bra, making its way to my boob. i didn't want to abruptly wake up and scare him so i pretended i was still sleeping. Then, his hand made its way onto my boob, and he was stroking it and feeling it, and just cupping it while his fingers stroked my boob. Then he took his hand out of my bra and shirt and proceeded to my butt, where he squeezed my butt cheek. Is this normal? was he taking advantage of me because i was sleeping? i need an answer fast!
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  • Are you into him? He is probably curious if he hasn't had a girlfriend before but he could end up being dangerous. next time that starts telling him just make some weird ass bird sound to scare the shit out of him and pretend like you're still asleep and see if he falls for it. I think that'd be hilarious. Anyways, unless you're into him in that way then you should kindly confront him about it and try to let him know that you want to stay friends ( if you do that is) and that you're just not into him that way. If you are into him then let him know because he obviously wants you too. Just be careful and don't do anything you will regret.

    • not into him at all! he's like a brother to me. i think im going to have to make some weird ass bird noise next time (hopefully there won't be one!)

    • I hope not too for your sake, Just make some scary surprising long noise when you're "sleeping" and see if he moves his hand really fast. Then wake up and ask him what he was doing. If he lies then tell him that he needs to stop lying about it and come out straight forward and apologize for it. If he still denies it then maybe you two need some space for a while until he grows up and tells you the truth to what he did.

    • LOLOL too funny. im hoping i won't have to practice making those noises for the future. do you think it was really just out of curiosity?

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  • Feeling you up while you slept? That perverted little prick was taking advantage of you big time. He is showing signs of being a possible rapist. The answer is simple. Find the biggest, baddest mother fuckers you can find and get them to beat this guys ass. If he had the nerve to do that, he might get a little braver until you do something about it. From now on be extremely cautious around this guy and warn others. He could be a serious threat to you and other girls. But then again he might be a serious loser that simply wanted his first feel...

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  • Personally, I might be a bit mad. Okay, the butt part? Not as much, but the boob part might make me mad. I could see if he had at least SOME respect for me and did it over my shirt, but no. Anyways, this is about you. I would personally say through hints out about you knowing, but don't say it directly. And if you are more of a blunt person, come right out and say something about it.

    • i've dropped so many hints, even face to face! i dont know if he's ignoring it or really doesn't know. i am mad at him, big time.

    • You have the right to be and PLEASE IGNORE the people on here that are suggesting that you liked it because they are stupid -_- They are idiots and obviously don't understand the minds of young females. Lol. Anyways, then I would suggest like... not talking to him as much. You know, kind of back out of the friendship, but nothing too extreme. Then when he starts asking questions about what's going on, then you tell him. Or, if you are not willing to do that, just don't sleep around him anymore.

  • you were definitely taken advantage of and thats not right for what he did. you need to tell him that what he did was not right. If that happens again you need to stop him and end ya friendship because that is not right at all.

  • He was just curious, doesn't necessarily mean he was being a jerk.

    • okay, thanks. thats what i thought but i was really creeped out since he's my best guy friend.

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  • Kid, he did all that and you didn't turn around and punch him? Just make sure you use a condom if it goes that far as you obviously liked it.

    • oh trust me i did punch him when "i woke up because the movie was too loud" two seconds after.

  • He wasn't taking advantage of you if you were awake... You could have easily said wtf but you just kind of ran with it. Also spooning isn't a best guy friend kind of thing.

  • You clearly did not mind, so what's your issue here?

  • Yes he was taking advantage of you. I don't know how many times I've told people this but there are no male and female "friends" unless the woman is pig ugly. There is always something more to it on behalf of at least one of them most often the male.

    Any male who isn't gay and gets friend zoned by a hot girl harbors desires to one day break out of that zone.

    • To say male and female friends don't exist is an ignorant viewpoint. Especially ignorant if you add "she has to be pig ugly." This opinion suggests that females and males cannot empathize with one another as human beings. That attraction only exists in one dimension of aesthetic pleasure. Obviously this is not true. My example, a married female friend who is a beautiful woman, and who I empathize with as a person. We've been friends for around 10 years now. I have no attraction to her because she is not the kind of woman I go for. She's dark and edgy, and I like cute and sweet. But I appreciate her friendship. If you know who you are and what you want, then you can be friends with a female. It's about empathizing with someone.

    • What you're saying also suggest that straight men and gay dudes can't be friends. Or lesbians and other chicks.

    • Keep on lying to yourselves, doesn't bother me.

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  • Yes, soon as this guy catches you drunk he'll rape you. Get away from him.

  • please end the friendship with him
    why didn't you stop him?
    any guys who touch your private parts without your consent are assaulting u

  • Yes. He did exactly that. Took advantage of you while you were sleeping.

  • 10 years is a long ass time to never bang someone hell a month is too to tell the truth