Best starter dildo?

[Anonymous]

What dildo so you feel is best to start off with?
I never had sex or anything inside

Which would you recommend?
A rabbit style
A realistic style
A jelly style
A hard plastic one

Any tips appreciate

[iimJay]

Depends on what you're comfortable with and what budget you're looking at. You can go from 15/20$ to 200. There's going to be some trial and error involved. Also consider glass options and how much vibration, if any, you'd want.

Any simple 6" jelly or realistic is a good starting point. Adam&Eve, Amazon, and pinkcherry have great options. Just check the best sellers list.

Your local shop would be happy to give you recommendations as well and it's an incredibly comfortable environment in most of them. The clerk's are almost always incredibly nice, nonjudgmental, and helpful.

As a high end option I highly recommend the entire LELO line. If you picked up a Soraya you may not leave bed for a few days.

The hard plastic ones can be a bit awkward for a first purchase. It's hard to go wrong with the high end ones and often your local shop has active displays you can feel before buying. Otherwise keep it simple for the first time and get that plain 6" or a small vibe. Bullets and mini wands can give you an idea of what you might want as a next purchase.

[drsatan]

What do you think would be good for you to start with?

Do you enjoy pleasuring yourself internally or externally?
Is it important to you that the toy is realistic, or just that it's practical?
Do you have lubricant? If not, you should get that first. Go to a sex shop and sample different lubes with your hands and find one you think will suit your needs. A good lube is just as important or even more important than any of the gadgets women buy.

[Anonymous]

Probably a rabbit style with a vibrating part, you have ones that are not hard and a but jelly style more which are probably your best option :)

Do buy lube with it

[plate]

Crazy. Half these dudes can't even find the clit, but are out here recommending dildos to people.

[one1wild00]

I'd say real to start, give a lucky guy the pleasure of popping you.

[maxflame]

My girlfriend uses a rabbit and realistic ones