Best way for a woman to initiate sex?

Sometimes I want to have sex but I don't know how to let my boyfriend know and feel sorta shy asking. How should i go about it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You don't necessarily have to ask. You can just get cozy or frisky, and get him in the mood. Dressing and acting provocatively, not over doing it, is another way to get him going. Walking around him half dressed often does the trick, especially if using certain poses. Or just walk up to him, grab his dick, and start. A little dirty talking in his ear will also do the trick. Or, you could just tell him you are horny, and would like to fuck. If you build up he courage to just say you want to be fucked, and do that a few times, you will get over being shy about asking.

  • Sit next to him or stand next to him, kiss him, then take his hand and put it on your boob, bite your bottom lip, and give him "puppydog eyes". If he isn't inside of you within 2 minutes, I'd be shocked.

Most Helpful Girls

  • i dont understand, you're the woman, he's the guy, i think hell just be up for it. you dont have to do anything just take hisclothes off/ your clothes off or start kissing him and let your hands wander

    • If he doesn't respond, at what point should she wonder whether she has his consent? When he's naked? wouldn't this be sexual assault?

    • @Chiral no no , i meant with his consent. i just meant she likely doesn't need to do somersault to get him interested. NOT that she should do anything without consent. i thought she was asking how to get him interested not how to make it happen. as for the touching, this would be in a context where they are already doing these things. always go slow enough for the person to say stop if need be. he's her boyfriend so i assume they already touch each other. so i dont see why she needs to do anything special. me i prob just say i want to-so its clear. but most people dont like that.

  • Gently rub his crotch until you feel him getting excited, then unbutton or unzip him to let it out. 😜

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  • If you don't know how to ask your boyfriend for sex
    You guys shouldn't be dating... go back to seeing each other lol... wtf

    • We've only been seeing each other for 3 months. He recently called me his girlfriend, so that's why I used the label (don't even necessarily want to be in a relationship). Don't judge.

    • I do judge lol... Because it's strange to be girlfriend and boyfriend and not be comfortable like that He obviously did it too soon Rookie mistake lol

  • You see him there and you get real close to him and start kissing him hard. Touch his face and then go down to his arms. Then start touching his thighs and work your way to his junk. If he doesn't stop you go from there.

  • you could just like punce on him, I would love that personally, but it depends on your boyfrend.

  • Go somewhere you eanna get fucked and text him

  • Sit next to him and place your hand on his thigh and slow move up towards his crotch as you do that kiss his neck. That'll get him going.

  • When you're making out start to take off his clothes. If he's says something. Just say I want to see you without a shirt, then pants. etc... tell him to strip for you... Grab his butt... do something besides just sitting on your ass and waiting for a guy to respect you and read your damn mind! It's hard enough to be a guy. Just get naked and tell him to do the same.

  • Just walk up to him and take it. Tell him to fuck you. Play with his crotch. Turn him on.

  • Just do it no man can resist a woman that takes what she wants

  • Undress him... easy

  • Where something skimpy sit in his lap and wiggle around a lot.

  • Blow job is the best way

  • Tell him you need his cock and show him your already warmed up wet pussy. Guaranted success.

    • This guy beat me to it.

  • I like my neck Nuzzled and a hand on my package is a good give awaylol

    • Not too many guys that could miss that cue!!

    • Lmao right

  • Just talk about it n start being romantic there no special process for it hug him in a lust way he can understand

  • Whisper your thoughts in his 👂play naughty game in personal whenever wherever

  • just be gradual.. start with kisses..

  • SEXY nighty

  • Just go and kiss him passionately.. boys will turn on easily and rest will be taken forward by him

  • Flirt

  • You need to be full on... jump on him and get nude... Thats what my wife has to do with me

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