Best way to prepare for last minute an@l consent?

So normal when preparing for an@l first time I see a lot of people say fingers and small toys and cleaning. What if it’s last minute/in the moment?
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Superb Opinion

  • We'll see that's all up to your boyfriend and how he's going to do it I think if there's an art form to it just like having regular sex you have to be able to read your partner's eyes cheeks the way she breathes the way she moans for me I like to go super super slow motion I've done this before and from behind and I have felt like water drops hitting my arm.

    I would stop and see why didn't you tell me it hurt I would have stopped and this is super slow slow motion and I've had two girls say the same exact same thing before no don't stop these are happy tears don't stop. So you want to have him make it all about you. Lube is very important. I've never used toys on an ass just pussy that all I have ever needed was me but I'm a marathon guy whether it's pussy or her ass anyway

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you are having sex at home or even a bfs house.

    then you need to prep just in case.

    there is no rushing anal especially for first time.

    practice at home alone and you will see exactly why you need to learn patience

    your sphincter needs to be able to relax and your ass get used to being teased.

    bad anal is one of the worst things going, it’s painful and messy.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Unless you can get that sphincter to relax there's no way he's going to penetrate without a whole lot of pain. As you get more experienced you get better at controlling your sphincter and warm up time reduces.

  • Then it shouldn't be.
    Anal isn't a 'in the moment" kind of deal, not if you want it to go well.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Don’t do it until you are fully prepared to. Simple.

  • If it's in the moment A) use lots of lube and B) make sure you *know* for sure that you can trust him to have the communication, self control and respect for you to stop, slow down etc as you need in order to make it work.

  • If its last minute then their is no preparation.

  • To talk to the person and tell them you need more time.

  • Your naughty little ass (literally and figuratively) just needs a strong handed DADDY DOM like me to force it in you while you whimper and cry. You know that turns you on, I know my women.

    • Obviously you don’t. Consent is key and making sure your sub is okay is important. Not everyone likes pain. Me personally, I only like a certain degree of pain. Whether it’s last minute anal or not, there’s always some sort of preparation, even if it isn’t the best

    • How do you know if you like pain to a certain degree if you've never experienced it? you're still young so you don't know your likes and dislikes. I had a few just like you who thought the same thing that I was too rough, then they went and had sex with a beta male who was too gentle and they came back to me and said they needed a rough fuck because they decided they loved that much better to feel the pain which turned them on. You'll only know that once you experience it!

  • you dont. unless you want a nasty disease