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  • Using leather cuffs is best especially for newbies. And thin cargo straps with small carabiners (snap links) connected to the bed frame legs.

    You can go doggy style or on her back, arms spread, strap across hips, and ankles back and spread, and you can see and access everything, but she's still comfortable.

    I don't recommend rope until you've had some experience (both being tied up and for the person doing the tying), and ALWAYS make sure you have a safe way of getting the restraints off quickly in an emergency - I have EMT sheers (strong scissors), which can easily cut through rope or straps, don't have pointed ends, and are cheap at less-than-$10.

  • Personally I like the hogtie for show, but as far as simplicity and value, rope handcuffs, hands in front. You can then tie it to a headboard comfortably, gives a lot of power but is very little on show, as to the how, that's up to you, there's several ways

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  • I like the feeling of rope, or metal handcuffs.

  • Is that who gets tied up?

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  • Get straps that slide over the corners of the bed. If you're not used to being tied it will help w fear of "being trapped". They slide on but can loosen if pulled hard. Not like being handcuffed to a headboard.

  • Knock her out first

    • Lol funny

  • I don't know rope?

  • My favorite way is if she comes to bed wearing stockings and I take them off her and the her wrists and ankles with them. Handcuffs or straps are good ways too.

  • I guess by hands and by legs, then to bed.

  • Never around the neck or soft stomach and if using rope dont use knots. Tutorials online for shibari are very useful if you want to actually learn

  • There are plenty of BDSM sites out there with really good instructions on how to use ropes, and the various tying styles and methods.

  • Using rope

  • Naked. Arms and legs spread wide with her wrists and ankles tied to each corner of the bed

  • With fluffy hand cuffs

  • with silk ropes to some bedposts

  • Don't unless she's sure

  • handcuffs