boyfriend got pocket pussy, don't know how I feel?

So me and my boyfriend have about 6yrs together and our sex life has always been pretty good, even more amazing over time. Recently he has become much more sex driven than ever and thats not a problem, but it has also been feeling like my pleasure is not as important. I think he's gotten bored and I just havnt been feeling very good about myself nor has he really helped with that. Therefore making me feel inadequate and insecure about myself and like I'm just not enough. So he bought a pocket pussy and told me about it, said that his roomate got it for him. I don't know what to think, but ill be honest that I just don't like it and I only have a vibrator, no dildo which I prefer not to have because I like the real thing. I could just use some thoughts and opinions on this subject.
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Woah lol no need to be harsh about it, I think I made it seem more emotional than how I actually feel about it. I mean when I really think about it, it turns me on thinking about him pleasuring himself. And no I have not gained weight. I've been over thinking it because he acted really odd when telling me about it, when we havnt had many issues when it comes to feeling comfortable about our sexual likes and dislikes etc.
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  • No offense but it sounds like there is deeper issue here because at first you say sex is great in your 6yr relationship and now that he is more sexual it is peitering off and not as good so you feel insecure because you feel he is focusing on his pleasure not yours am i understanding this correct? If this is case it sounds like he is getting off and more sexual lately to please him not you so is it possible the main reason your upset is because he isn't pleasing you? If he pleased you thoroughly then would you not mind him pounding away to get his or would you still be bored and feel not as well as you do? In truth no offense to women but were built diffrent and ik you hear this all the time but we wanna fuck all the time and you all can't handle that , understandable thats why its important we take care of ourselves a lot its better then other methods. So thats why i guess he needs such a thing so he gives you a break. Hey its better then cheating. If you want good satisfaction again in sex you better speak up and ask for it. We men cannot interpret shit sometimes we need help. Let me know if y'all want tips to heighten and reignite the spark.

  • In terms of the pocket pussy, I don't see that as an issue. It's a sex toy, and guys generally want ther penis to be massaged for sexual stimulation. Women on the other hand generally want there clitoris to be massaged.
    Because of the size diffrence (as well as how they operate) I don't see why it would bother someone.
    As for you not getting your needs meet, have you tried talking to him about it? He may think everything is fine.
    You need to be somewhat carefull bringing it up because you don't want to come off as blameing him.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Do not change or feel bad about yourself for a man. That being said. Spice it up for you. Go buy some sexy lingerie and plan a fun night. Don't thing just about him when buying it, make sure that you feel comfortable and sexy to. He could just be wanting excitement or change. But that's healthy. My ex had got one and he got it because we weren't always together and he needed something to feel like the real thing. Just talk to him about it and see what you both can do to spice things up.

  • At least he's not cheating. I prefer my man to have all the pocket pussies he wants, than go out there and fuck a real one.

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  • You have a sex toy, so I say let him have one too.

  • You can use it on him... Make it a part of your sex play... And he can use your vibrator on you... Once you two get nicely warmed up... Proceed to sex...

    Win win win...👍

  • Have you gained any weight or something? I doubt a pocket pussy would be better than the real thing. If he prefers it to you, then you have a problem.

  • 😂😂😂😂😂😂
    holy shit... this made my day

    thank you
    bow down to your boyfriend,... he's a legend

  • I mean to him if you're not there it's either his hand or that. I say it doesn't matter how he jerks off, guys gotta do what a guys gotta do

  • What they said.
    Why are you allowed to have a toy and he's not? As long as he's not choosing it over you there's no problem

  • Here’s a pro tip: many guys continue to masturbate even if they are in a relationship. Have you investigated and looked within why you haven’t orgasm lately? Are you stressed out? You have to be stronger emotionally; why do you feel insecure because of a toy? He’s still with you, right?

  • This made me laugh. I love pocket pussies

  • You both own sex toys I see no problem in that.

  • Damn, that's gotta hurt😂💀

  • hey , its our personal product

  • Tease him about it

  • You have a damn vibrator. You're equal now.

  • We all masturbate

    • Even when with a hot girl , or wife. FEEL free to grab his dick anytime you want to use it...

  • It really seems to me that he wants you to try different things with him and this was the safest way to suggest it without hurting your feelings. If it turns you on then use it with him and maybe try something creative as long as you genuinely want to do it and not just to make him happy.

  • This sounds a bit like the vibrator calling the pocket a pussy to me.

    • Check out the update... lots of backtracking. Sh want from ''I just don't like it..'' to ''it turns me on thinking about him pleasuring himself.'' Something tells me that she'd be singing a different tune if everyone was commenting on how wrong the guy was...

  • You own a sex toy. He owns a sex toy. What's the difference?