Boyfriend masturbating while thinking about my friend. Is that normal?

so a few weeks ago i found out that my boyfriend masturbated while thinking about some of my friends while playing truth or dare. I was so upset that i wanted to broke up with him but he apologized a million times and told me that almost all guys do that; thinking about wild fantasy just to make them cum and he swore he would never cheat on me, he told me it was just a temporary wild fantasy and nothing is wrong with that. I thought that was true until i asked my ex and he said he had never done that before because he thought that is weird and doesn't feel right. Please help me i'm so confused
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  • Why did you ask him in the first place?

    • We were playing truth or dare. I was just curious tbh

    • You werent expecting this result were you? Its just a fantasy and he is sorry about it so i wouldn't worry too much about it.

  • well if it was someone else like an acctress or pornstar makes sense, but your own friend no

    • Yeah that was what i thought...

  • it is. He can thing about anything he wants at any time

  • wtf no way, would you do that? If my boyriend did this he would be dumped. Why would you want to be with someone that masturbates over someone other than you? You're worth more than that surely.

  • See. You asked your ex. There is no assurance that he will be telling you the complete truth. How do we know that he is telling you the actual thing. He might not be your well wisher too. I think, if you trust your Boyfriend, if this is the 1st time he is breaking your tryst, don't break up. Tell him that you are not comfortable with him doing this. He will surely understand. And if he continues to do so, slap home and dump him. But, in my opinion, you should not break up over such a trivial issue and talk it out with him rather than relying on us or your ex.

    - A well wisher from across the seas :)

  • yeah, sure, not like it hurts anything, right?

    • Well, it does. My feelings duh

    • oh, so now the truth comes out

  • men would impregnate everything with a vagina if given the chance. as for this incident fantasy is not reality though. he didn't cheat practically

    • I hope your joking... There is a reason women get friendzoned to.

    • *Any half decent looking thing with a vagina, most men wouldn't put their dick near a fat chick.

    • @amphet11 with the proper amount of alcohol and desperation, everything is possible

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  • many guys do it. Dont worry. its not cheating.

  • i'd have to see pics of ur friends first ;)