Taking a relationship to this level is very risky. If you do not already have a solid and trusting relationship then this could cause issues down the road. Is it possible to have a threesome and the relationship still be just as strong ABSOLUTELY, however I cannot stress enough there needs to be complete trust from both of you. As well as respect. Fantasy tend to be better as fantasy, very rarely does what the mind think up and fantasize about actually plays out like that in real life.
Then there is setting rules and boundaries that should not be crossed at any level by either partner. This helps maintain the level of trust you both had going into the situation and strengthens it afterwards.
As for the anal part on both women I would be concerned about hygiene with both of you ladies. Even if he wore a condom he is the only one protected and whatever is on it from one lady will be given to the other. For me personally it is not a comfort level I would like but everyone else is different and I completely respect that.
Bottom line talk about it with your boyfriend without the excitement of the fantasy. Sex is a very intimate thing and even if there wasn't emotions in the beginning they do tend to happen. Once you and your boyfriend have really talked about this and made a decision, I would then talk with the girlfriend and see where her thoughts are. Will you be okay if she comes over when you are not there still? Will you constantly be thinking about what if they decided to do something else? Is your relationship strong enough that you know without a doubt that even if your friend strutted around naked begging for sex from your boyfriend he would tell her to get dressed and get a life? That would be worse case scenario not saying it would happen but when you venture into things like this who knows what they other is thinking.
You young girls these days. smh. I bet your boyfriend is broke, young, and doesn't have enough money to takes you out for McDonald's and you are here asking us should you give him an anal threesome, are you serious? Fuck no. No man who has respect for a woman will ask you to do some nasty trifling shit like that. Listen to me here, I once had a male friend tell me, "if a girl let's me fuck her in the ass and I'm not married to her I have no respect for her." When I was your age I had guy's taking me out shopping and to dinner for THEIR BIRTHDAY never once did I have a guy ask me for an anal threesome or even sex for a birthday present. When a man can sense u have no self-respect he will ask you to fuck a dog for him. At your age I had two jobs, I was in college, and i had a really nice car I got at 17, so no guy could step to me unless they were talking right. Young lady you better wake-up because the more of your body you give a man the less he does for you. Period.
Have you had a 3some before? I guess as long as you have no problem with him fucking another girl why not. In my opinion it's not something I could do as I would never be able to look at the girl the same way knowing she has had my guy inside her (anal it vaginal) and I wouldn't be able to enjoy sex with him again Coz I would be wondering if he prefer her.
Think about this before you decide good luck. 😊
Thanks, I knew it would change the dynamics of my relationship with my bf, but it would probably affect my friendship with her as well, I did'n't think about that.. we've been friends for 11 years
No problem. 11 years of friendship is a long time, I wouldn't want to jeopardise a friendship of this length.
Please consider if YOU are comfortable taking part in this before thinking about other people to be involved. Consent is sexy! xx
Seriously, who the hell asks if they can fuck someone else for their birthday, regardless of whether their girlfriend is involved or not?
It sounds to me like your boyfriend doesn't respect you at all. Anyone who asks for something like that is shallow and selfish. How do you think he'd react if you said you wanted to bang another guy for Christmas (or whatever religious holiday you celebrate)? He'd probably be pissed and jealous.
If you decide to to this for him, then that's your choice, obviously, but the fact that you're asking for advice suggests that you're either not sure about it, or uncomfortable with it. My advice would be to give him his "freedom" for his birthday by moving on to someone else. Find a guy that has more respect for you, and thinks about something other than his own selfish desires.
Just my two cents.
If you're comfortable with it and you don't mind him also fucking another woman, then go for it.
If you have don't anal before, buy a water based lube to spread the anus or it will hurt. Always do anal after vaginal sex, not before. Some of the dirty shit inside the ass can contaminate or cause an infection in the vagina. Also have fun!
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I am not judging you or your relationship, but yuck. If you would like to see him happy then go for it. Personally, I wouldn't do it. I would do the threesome but not the anal part.
once u start letting him fuck another girl while ur there don't be surprised when u catch him doing it while ur gone
End the relationship. He doesn't love you. You're wasting your time. Everyone deserves love.
Fantisies are great acting on them can destroy a relationship with both your husband and friend. Let's say you act on it, you feel he paid more attention to her or she crosses boundaries that you set.
Only the receiving partner should request this.
Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Most Helpful Girls