Bf wants me to tie him up and have my way, what to do?

My boyfriend wants me to tie him up, blindfold and have my way with him tonight. Our sex life is pretty wild and open to new things. What are some things I should do.
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  • You could role play as a woman that has him captured and is going to force him into a life of prostitution. You could even use a fake accent and act like someone else testing out the sex slave she is thinking about buying from you. If you do take his blind fold off he might even find you wearing a wig to promote the fantasy.

    If he is into humiliation you can pretend to take photos and threaten to black mail him if he doesn't do what you want. If he isn't into humiliation then talk about how his penis is the perfect sex toy to boost his confidence.

    It depends on what you think he would be comfortable with. Even him asking you to stop could be part of the role play. This is why a lot of people have a safe word. If he is helpless and you are doing things he hates he would have no way to stop you.

  • This largely depends on how kinky you are. Bondage by definition is kinky but are you into S&M, humiliation, or what? Wide open isn't very descriptive. You might sit him down over an intimate drink and ask him to describe his fantasy in detail. Then you can take him over your knee and spank him bare bottom long and hard for being a pervert. ;)

    • he loves if I spank him and do stuff to his a** . To some that may be gross but to us it turns us on.

    • I'm very into ass and anal play myself. My lady fortunately loves that I do things to her there.

      I would recommend that you start to build a toy collection. We're huge fans of glass butt plugs, for several reasons: they can go in the dishwasher so they're easy to gt clean enough to literally eat with, with most you can see up his ass, and they come in a wide variety of shapes and sizes. Here's one set that looks like a good set for beginners:
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      One other toy we love in out collection is:
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      You might also want to invest in some impact toys: paddles, crops, canes, etc. The best site I've found for a good selection and great prices is www.frugaldomme.com

    • Yeah we have some toys right now. It's a vibratING want with small to larger beeds. Definitely helps for the real thing or in a guys case a bugger toy

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  • Tie him up. It's all about new sensations especially when you're blindfolded, so foreplay will be a big thing.

    You can try bringing some edible items to mix up the fun. For example, put some whip cream on his chest and you can go around kissing, sucking and licking it up then kiss him so he can taste too... if he doesn't know you had it to begin with it's a whole new tasting experience.

    You can "tell" him to open his mouth and be ready then you let him suck on your boobs. Also mix in forms of erotic massage and tease him with a blow job and don't let him cum until you decide.

    It's all about taking control, do anything that pops up in your head haha

  • Tease. Tease. Tease. Make love to his whole body. Stroke his chest and his face, kiss him lightly. Make him beg for more. Rub his nipples, stroke his legs. Make him go crazy trying to guess where you will touch him next! Tease his penis by licking it, then go back to stroking. Just do slight licking and barely sucking every once in a while. Make him beg for you to put it all the way in. After teasing him for a loooooong time, start to suck on him. Then pull ot out and slowly climb on top of him. Ride him nice and slowly and hold his face. Whisper dirty things to him, while you gradually increase pace. Keep it up until he comes!

    Haha, i wonder how many people i turned on by writing this!

    • I'll try that &&probably a few lol

  • Get a strap on... and do him from behind. Say, "bitch, what's my name?"