Girls, Bi and lesbian girls. Do you get annoyed when guys ask about your experiences?

[Anonymous]

I’m guilty of doing that. I’ve been turned on by the thought of that since I was 14 and I’m not even sure why. I did read an interesting theory that two women engaging in that is a signal that both are ready for sex.

But anyway I’ve been more mindful over the recent years not to say something stupid/creepy on that. But I’ll admit my fascination with that is still very strong.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Yeah a lot actually. I don't mind answering questions, but then you add it up by the number of guys who ask and worst of all the ones who ask to join in and when I say I dont like guys ask if they can be with my wife instead which she does things to me. Seriously drives me crazy in a bad way.

[Asker]

Yeah I get that. We ask questions because it gives material to a fantasy in our minds. But I sure as hell never expect to get a 3some by randomly approaching bi/lez women. That only works if that’s their idea not mine. With that said it does create a day dream to hear the details of your experiences. I admit that.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

It's the ones who think they have the magical dick to turn me straight which are the worst.

[Asker]

Nah i don’t do that. But I am curious to hear about your experiences. Like the first time you fooled around with a girl. by the way I’ve been in scenarios where I’ve watched two women have sex but I didn’t do anything to them.

[Anonymous]

I’m bisexual, so from my personal experience I think the conversation should go both ways. If a guy is asking me questions about my experiences I’d want to hear about theirs.

I get turned on by two guys getting together, so to an extent I understand. In general, regardless of the pairing (girls with girls, guys with guys, girls with guys, etc) I’d want to hear something from them. An exchange of information that’s mutually beneficial.

If they have no experience, then I’d want to hear about what they like (fantasies, fetishes, and so on). Basically if I’m being vulnerable with you, I’d like the favor to be returned. Sorry if this isn’t helpful - my point of view is probably very personal to me and my situation.

TL:DR - It’s not an annoying question if the guy is down to give me stories in return.

[Asker]

Fair enough. I bet we can have some interesting convos :)

[Opinion Owner]

I bet we could. Too bad I’m in the latter of my response (no experience) 😅

[Asker]

Well we can DM still if you don’t mind (unless you want to talk about this publicly just saying)

[Opinion Owner]

I guess DM. It’s easier to have a conversation that way.

[Opinion Owner]

But maybe publicly chatting isn’t that bad. Did you have a specific question for me?

[Asker]

I’m oldasIfeel22. Feel free to DM me. I prefer DM tbh