Birthday sex ideas?

So my boyfriend is a gift hater when it comes to his birthday. All he wants is sex. So I want to give him the gift of sex but not just regular sex. It has to be spontaneous and different since it's all his present. Suggestions on positions, clothes, accessories etc
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Wear a big, loose sweater, or sweatshirt when you see him on his birthday. Pour him something warm to drink.

    The room is dim but not dark. Little background music that had a beat and melody suitable for sex.

    Say something like "Happy Birthday! Well... I know you're not into birthday presents, but I got a little something for you. I'll show you after we eat the cake." Use vocabulary of your choice, since you have to sound like you.

    Take out a birthday cake and eat a little bit with him (if you know he will have the patience for this). A pretty but not so fancy cake.

    Then walk away and say that you're feeling warm in the room, and take off your sweatshirt, with the following outfit inside:

    • Lacy and/or leopard patterned bra (preferably black. My humble opinion is that black bras go well with these. In fact, I have a bra in this exact combination, and it looks erotic and decent. It's leopard covered with lace)
    • Corset (black, red, anything that matches the bra and underpants)
    • Lacy and/or leopard patterned underpants (preferably black to match the bra. Laced and/or sheer on the butt) OR thong with lace and/of leopard patterned. Sorry, I'm very fond of leopard patterns)
    • Garter belt attached to thigh highs, or direct thigh highs with meshed or lacy pattern
    • Heeled shoes

    Walk sexily back to him. Bend down to him if he's sitting. Straddle your legs on him.

    Put a little bit of butter/icing from the cake onto his lips. Lick it off and slide your one hand down his chest at the same time. Then gently touch... any area of your choice! 😉

    Enjoy!

    • Thank you for the HMO. 😃 How did it turn out? Did you dress up for your boyfriend's birthday? 😉

    • It's Saturday. Unfortunately I think he's getting a cold soooo I need to get a back up plan going lol

    • How would a cold affect birthday sex? 😶? But you're going to heat up the room, right? 😉

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  • Have you tried lingerie or wrapping yourself with a ribbon and bow?

    • I'm gunna go get lingerie today

    • I hope it works out! Have fun and be safe!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Ice.

    Yeah... something not very many girls do but I'll remember it my entire life.

    My girlfriend and I were sitting on the sofa having sex, and she's riding me and suddenly says... "I need a drink of water". Well I heard her in the kitchen getting ice and she came back with a glass of ice water.

    What I wasn't prepared for is... she put some "in there" and when she shoved me back inside her... I was not expecting it and alarms went off in my head (WTF?) for about a millisecond until I figured out what she had done - and then it was... BLISS.

    He'll never... ever... forget that.

    • Does the penis feel good in a cold environment? I can't relate to that, so I'm asking. I've heard guys say that they like the penis in a warm environment.

    • @StarsInTheEyes It's cold for barely a minute or so... it melts and runs all over the place - and that's pretty awesome too. I have been with around 100 girls in my life and A LOT I can't even remember the specifics on. But that one girl I'll never forget. Wasn't the only trick she had either.

    • What were the other "tricks" she had? If you don't mind me asking you to exemplify a few. Thank you. I want to learn different ideas for my future man. 😊

  • play the song birthday sex... oh, don on lingerie ahead of time.

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  • Peppermint and ice ;) work everytime.

    • how do u use them?

  • Play some games on mobile about sex! You can find some on android playstore!

  • bring home a girl and do a 3 some!

    • Ahhh no

    • why not