Bisexuality and relationships?

If you are bisexual can you be in a serious monogamist relationship with just one gender? Or do you need the physical desires of both genders? A threesome is not an option. Just curious.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • My last few gf’s have been bisexual. i have had zero problems, as it’s all about trust and honesty.

    there is zero difference between dating a straight person to bisexual, other than they have a larger field to potentially date from. Even then it’s not a black and white thing, there may be certain specifics that a girl or guy may like.

    my Ex girlfriend was very much in to submissive, quiet type girls, the opposite with guys.

    Also it’s bollox that a Bi person NEEDS sex from both genders.

    Yes, they can have it, however when dating that trust thing comes in to it.

    Also I think it better to consider it more of a sliding scale on preference.

  • Yes, I have a monogamous relationship with a woman. However recently realized I had a little bi in me, during a threesome we had. I found out that being with a guy could be cool, I can admit there are things I find attractive in guys, but I don’t need both genders.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm a lesbian, but I can answer this one!

    My previous partner was bisexual. She had had relationships with both men and women before me. We were together for over 2 years and we never had any problems in regards to her sexuality.

    When she was with me, she was focused on me. Honestly, it was no different than any other relationship.

    It is absolutely possible to have a monogamous relationship with someone who is bisexual.

    • I too think a relationship is possible. But does the bi member need sex from both genders? I appreciate your thoughts

    • I don't think they do. Again, I'm not bisexual, but they aren't animals with uncontrollable need. I really don't think it's any different that a man being attracted to other women that aren't his partner, but not needing to have sex with them. Or same for women. Or gay men. Or lesbian women. Or any others. If you really like or love the person you're with, you're not going to go sleep with someone else regardless of your sexuality.

  • I’m sure they have their gender preferences and date based on those, however they won’t turn down sleeping with the opposite or even pursuing a relationship with them if that person is just that good.

    • So they would need time with both genders?

    • @ratpack60 I’m sure they have experimented with both genders.

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  • Not that I'm bi, but just being bi doesn't nean you can't be monogamous. Yeah there are going to be bi people who feel the need to sleep with other people, just like there are straight people who feel the same need. Just being bi doesn't mean you have to have both sexes at the same time, it just means you are attracted to both sexes.

  • I think people can. They just don't choose who they date based on gender.

  • I have dated two bisexual women and both cheated in me with other women. They both had the attitude that it wasn't really cheating because it wasn't with another guy.

  • I'm bisexual and I've been always in serious relationships with girls and not interested at all in being in relationship with a guy, so I'm able to separate between sexual attraction and emotional attraction.

  • I could be monogamous. But girls I have talked to too like to see 2 guys having sex that's why they like bi guys.

  • I fantasize about eating pussy all the time. But I love my man and my man only