Bjs vs sex? Which provides the best orgasm?

My boyfriend told me that getting a blowjob from me feels better than having sex with me? He pretty much always comes in my pussy (yes I'm on bc.) And I thought he really liked it but he told me that he prefers cumming in my mouth and that cumming in my mouth feels the best to him. That's fine and all, I like pleasing him, but why does he prefer this? Vaginas were made to be came in, so shouldn't cumming in it feel the best? He said that at one point he preferred my pussy over my mouth but he says I'm better at giving head now so he likes it the best. And he says the orgasm Is better in my mouth.. up until a few days ago he preferred my vagina.. does this mean my vagina is under stimulating? Do any other guys think cumming in a mouth is better than cumming in a pussy raw? Because I really try to spoil my dude with my pussy and blowjobs, (and I love giving him both) but hearing that my sexual part that was made to be came in isn't better than my mouth hurts a little. Maybe I have bad pussy..
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  • Personally sex feels better, I’ve never been a massive fan of bj’s it’s never been a massive pleasure bank for me. But I don’t think it’s so much as more sexually pleasing for your partner to have a bj over sex but he likes to cumming in your mouth for other reasons. It depends on individual preference, he may just like looking at your face reviving sexual pleasure knowing he cums in your mouth.

    Raw sex feels way more stimulating but cumming on my partners face, beasts or in her mouth feels more dominant than just inside her

  • Maybe be just doesn't trust you to take your birth control consistently so he's making an excuse not to cum in you?
    To me I prefer to cum in a vagina, it feels amazing.
    The only way it doesn't feel quite as good is when I cum in a condom and the condom is a little to tight against the tip of my dick.
    Other than that vaginas are best to me.

    • Maybe my vagina isn't tight enough for him so therefore cumming during a bj feels better?

    • Well, if he can reach orgasm in your vagina then it must be tight enough. I personally don't like cumming during blowjobs because my dick gets really sensitive right after I cum. If she sucks on it a little too much right during my orgasm it doesn't feel great to me. Maybe you're just really good at it though? You shouldn't worry, I'm sure your body is fine. Also don't forget that you get a choice too, it's not just about what he wants.

    • My vagina was made for sex.. so how is my vagina so bad that even my mouth feels better to a guy?

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  • For me, vaginal sex, by far, but guys are not Monoliths. I'd assume your blowjobs are so good that they give him the Stimulation he prefers, not that there is something wrong with your pussy.

    • Maybe my pussy isn't good though.. he told me preferred to cum in it but then he told me the truth and said he preferred my mouth. I don't know what's wrong with my pussy. It was technically made for cum to go inside so shouldn't it feel the best?

    • Please do not think there is something wrong with your pussy. It's about stimulation- a guy who masturbates all the time might only be able to cum when given a handjob.

    • He doesn't masturbate a lot. Maybe my pussy is under stimulating?

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  • I personally enjoy blowjobs most of the time.

    I told my friends with benefits and she agreed that she enjoyed giving them more than sex too so we switched to bjs. I look forward to it everyday and if we're away from each other for a few days oral is the best way to relieve the sexual tension.
    I used to think one sided sexual relationships were bad but my experience showed me that it can be extremely pleasurable for both partners.

  • They both feel great.

    Regular sex usually incorporates a lot of other things... kissing, feeling her entire body against me, holding her bottom or her breasts or torso, holding her entire body during climax.

  • Sex of course

  • Cum in your pussy is my favorite always

  • I find blowjob give a better overall orgasm, but I enjoy sex much more.

  • It’s a turn on just based on what you are doing to him or allowing him to do to you. Dr’s have verified that men get the biggest and hardest erections from oral. It’s not anything personal against your vagina. Every inch of a woman is loved equally. 😉

  • Tbh I prefer to cum inside pussy than mouth. But few times I have also cum inside my partners mouth both have different way of pleasure but I guess the best one is cumming inside the vagina. Your boyfriend will be having his own preferences.

  • Your head game must be on point.

    • Or maybe my pussy is bad..

    • Sure, if you want to be negative. :( Also, it doesn't make sense, pussy is never really bad. You have little control over some aspects of how it works. However, you have full control of your mouth and can do 'tricks' with it. So, I guessed you have a good head game.

    • He lied to me when he said he would rather cum in my pussy. Then he told the truth and said he preferred my mouth. Pussy was made to be came inside of so I'm just a little offended that he thinks my mouth feels better.. I love giving him blowjobs dont get me wrong.. but my pussy is literally made for sex and it somehow doesn't feel as good as my mouth.. :(

  • The hardest I've ever came was from a hand job.

  • In most cases for guys this is true

    • What? That blowjobs feel better?

  • Hi, do not worry i don't know what it is but i have the same. I love having sex with my wife but a blowjob feels the best. since you mouth is always wet the movement is always smooth and with her tongue she can drive me insane. So nothing wrong with her or her pussy but nothing can beat a blowjob.

  • Sex feels better but I prefer the sensations from blowjobs

  • Start sex and finish it with bj.

  • sex always gives me the best orgasm. blowjobs come second :)

    • I wonder why orgasms from bjs feel better for my boyfriend then. I mean, this isn't a problem. I like giving him head, but I mainly got on birth control to let him stop wearing condoms and I wanted to give him the best orgasm with my pussy.. maybe I'm too loose for him to have a pleasurable orgasm in me.

    • it’s just him 🤷🏼‍♀️ i prefer pussy

    • any pussy is better than head

  • pussy is 500 time better.

  • It's not an orgasm thing for me. Sex I have to work at it. BJ just sit back and relax... aaaaaah.

  • Serving a woman as a slave.

  • For me sex is better than a blowjob.

  • Sex does it for me

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