Blow jobs: how can I speed up the cumming process?

[Anonymous]

I'm dating a new guy. Love giving BJ's, but he takes forever to cum... my mouth gets tired! I'm doing everything I can to make it happen, including jacking him off while I rest my mouth. Any ideas guys?

[steveisbored]

You can ask him if there is anything specific he really likes during a bj, and work on doing that. If you want to try stuff on your own you can try deepthroating/gagging as much as possible when you are trying to finish him, sucking the head and jerking off as fast as possible while massaging the balls, you can try making tiny swallows/pulsing with the roof of your mouth pressed against him, even try blowing on it to make it cool and then taking it in as deep as you can. Plenty of itneresting things to try and see what hr responds well to

[Asker]

^^ done all of that!! Including asking if there is anything else I can do. As a side note, he can fuck for hours! Not complaining!

[SatanClaus]

guys prefer different things when it comes to blowjobs, and again... if you are in control... get into a rhythm that you know he is just so into (and you can tell by body movement/sounds/expressions) and you keep at it... and at it... and at it... he won't be able to control himself... consistency is a key part... if you get into a rhythm don't keep changing pace... it will only prolong... if anything speed up... never slow down.

[pretty_panda]

maybe switch it up between a BJ and a HJ? take turns so your mouth can have a bit of a break. that must be annoying :/

[Asker]

Done it... it is giving me a complex! He talks about how great I am at it and he can't wait to fill me with cum... but after an hour of BJ/HJ, deep throat... everything mentioned above, I'm perplexed!

[bizmarkee]

Not going to read all the replies, but have you tried mixing it up with sex? If you don't mind ATM then have him fuck you in the ass before giving the BJ. It will get him off quicker and he'll think you're a great woman.

[Niceguyscumlast]

Have you thought of trying a small vibrator on the base of his shaft I am one of those guys who is guilty of taking forever to cum and that does help move things along.

[Asker]

How old are you... Just curious

[Niceguyscumlast]

My DL says 55 but I feel more like 35

[Asker]

He's 36

[Niceguyscumlast]

I was always told by women they were happy to finally be with a man that could last longer than the "minute men" they had been with. But some did complain that they were getting sore that is why I make sure they cum as many times as they want then my turn. Sounds like your man is "gifted" with the same stamina. The vibrator does work

[Asker]

I'm 42 and totally enjoying it, just not used to it. This us the first non-husband person I've been with in 15 years! (Getting divorced at the moment... don't judge) this is all good information. thanks

[Niceguyscumlast]

Judge you? on the contrary I celebrate you I have had more sex with more women at 55 then I ever had in my 30's thanks to word of mouth I am meeting a lot of women looking for the "gift" so enjoy it and it's about time your having great sex. Yay!

[sexyasianboi26]

Try doing handjobs while kissing him, sit on his lap, stroke him and french kiss, this is very erotic.

Stimulate his nipples, the right nipple seems to send signals making orgasm much more intense.

[chocolatedragon]

Go at a fast pace.
Focus your lips on the head mostly.
Occasioanly slow down to tease the other parts, but keep on going fast on the head.
I was in a 69 and came first because the girl went machinegun with her lips lol.

[BertMacklinFBI]

its all in the mind. if he is so turned on he can cum quicker than what your physical skills can offer, your situation is a good example. unlock his mind and find out what turns him on to the extreme and he will pop way too fast.

[Jager66]

He might not be turned on enough, seduce him!! Women aren't the only ones with minds that need stimulation.

[Asker]

I'm open to suggestions... maybe more dirty talk ahead of time?

[Jager66]

Yeah that could do it, everyone is different though so you might need to figure out what gets him going, confidence and genuinely enjoying yourself is likely a big part of it. You could try experimenting, talking to him about sex but make it a fun sexy talk not an interrogation, google ideas etc..

[jmmmfi]

Use your hand for a few minutes before you start sucking that way he's already a little closer. Oh and don't forget to swallow, very important!

[kiran29]

use your hand and mouth too. also if possible try using ur breasts...

[Anonymous]

Have him masturbate for you while you watch.. this will give you a good idea on what pressure, speed, and motions he prefers

[Asker]

Already happening during my breaks!!!

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he is a little selfish and loves it so much that he is intentionally holding back for a longer blowjob I have been guilty of this in the past

[Asker]

That makes sense. He does seem to have incredible control over his orgasm. I have like 5 during sex and he's still going... not complaining! Just never been with a guy with that kind of endurance!

[Opinion Owner]

If he is like me then he is multiorgasmic and cum several times from a bj..5 in a row is the most so far haha, when my girlfriend found out I was multiorgasmic she went a little crazy

[Chronick]

Do you cum when you have your multi orgasm, or just multi orgasm and cum at the end?

[Chronick]

I guess to be more specific, do you ejaculate on each of those orgasms?

[Opinion Owner]

I am a heavy cummer and the first 2 are usually considered a lot and 3 to 5 get drastically smaller as I go but there has always been some amount of ejaculate

[Asker]

I'm a girl... nothing is actually coming out! I just shake and tremble and squeel!

[Opinion Owner]

Not a squirter? Must be boring haha

[Anonymous]

get a vibe and massage his prostate