Guys, Blowjob at first Date?

Question

Is it okay if I give a man a blowjob at the First Date? I mean its a Bit Quick but I think its also a Quick Way that People get to know you better

FemWorship · Accepted Answer

Had HJ 1st date and I pursued her all summer, eventually lots of sex... until she lied about BC pills - YIKES
Her other assets made her a prime contender to be The One... after more education & career on track but she seemed not to want to wait for all that...

I didn't get to know her better until weeks & weeks of hanging out, just saying.

A better ploy might be less aggressive & simply "easier", e. g. allowing him to aggressively explore your body, even parts naked if not all THEN suggest (or force) a BJ to keep baby making sperm WAY away from vag

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

I think not and here's why. Pay esp close attention to the part on equality of emotional investment.

jether · Answer

Well, if i already had sex in my first date, what can i say about blowjobs? But, for my personal experience, the second date is better to spicy things up. Let the first date with only expectations. Unless you are looking for one night stands and casual sex in general.

wankiam · Answer

i think its fine if you enjoy doing it and im sure the guy will love it

J-Rock · Answer

Yeah, whatever DUDE with a profile of a girl.

Dargil · Answer

Hell NO!

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

I've had it happen before. It's certainly a great icebreaker. :-)

xxbtg13 · Answer

I'd wait till the 3rd date. While I wouldn't say no. I think it sends the wrong signal about you.

MeatPuddle · Answer

I don't wait, I wanna see what he's got. (=

tompkins · Answer

That would be a major turn-on and I would want more dates. Especially if you swallow.

averagejoe805 · Answer

No way! My personal rule is no sexual contact at all for at least three dates. If I was on a date, and the girl dropped her head into my lap, I would never ask her out again. To me, that's a sign of a major slut.

naraku · Answer

Didn't you just answer your own question? If it's something you and your date are comfortable with then why not?

neoagent1 · Answer

Yes I think a blowjob on the first date makes me know you want me and that you're into oral so 2 major pluses :)

Decentguy · Answer

Whatever float's your boat but blowjob isn't a way to get to know anyone. lol

Humbledman74006 · Answer

If you like sucking cock, I mean really like it, most guys won't say no

Gentleman__Dom · Answer

If things are going well and there's a spark, it could be acceptable without you coming off as "easy." If things are going bad, and you try anyways could send message you're after him for sex only. Although at the end of the day, just do you, have fun and be safe is all. Doesn't matter what the rest of us think so long as you're happy. So to answer it, if you think it's okay, go for it.