Blowjob on second date.. do you think that's a bad idea?

I do like this guy and I'm interested in having a relationship with him in the future, do you think oral sex so soon would ruin my chances of us becoming serious?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Depends on what sort of relationship you hope to have with him. If that's a more sexual one, by all means feel free to give him oral on the second date. If you're more interested in a more emotional relationship with sex as a 'side dish', it's best to wait a bit before getting physical.
    You want to be sure that you two relate & can get along well prior to sex getting involved.

  • Well, I met my now husband for coffee on our first date, 2nd date we watched a movie and kissed, 3rd date I gave him a bj. He wasn't expecting it either. Bext time we saw each other, he had "trimmed". Haha

    • haha, good man! (for trimming for you) ;)

Most Helpful Guys

  • With me, if you want a serious relationship with potential legs, then I'd wait another date or two. You might benefit from taking a look at this:

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a6869-relationships-how-they-work

    Questions?

  • Do you feel obligated to do so? Or is this something you have the desire to do because you're attracted to him?

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  • It wouldn't with me. I think some guys like to date women who don't like sex so it might ruin things with them.

  • I dont think so. If you want to do it, do it...

  • It might. Why do you think that's all you have to offer?

  • I think that's a pretty good sell.