Blowjob without swallowing?

Has anyone actually had a blowjob where the partner spit the cum out? How did it make you feel? Its never happened to me but i keep reading that it does happen to some people. It must be so disappointing when it happens.
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  • My wife actually does not like the taste of cum, and she's really not too excited thinking about cum down her throat and being ingested. But she loves sucking my cock, so whenever she does go down on me and she lets me cum in her mouth, she'll immediately spit it out somewhere next to her. I really only get to unload in her mouth when she gives me road head, or we're somewhere that if I came elsewhere, it'd be an issue (like when we were seated in the last row of a plane, backed up against the rear restrooms, it was a long flight at night, and she decided to give me a blowjob when the flight attendants were all chilling somewhere else :D )

    I had a friend with benefits who would occasionally blow me. She swallowed like every-other time or totally randomly, so I never knew if she was just going to gulp my load down, or jump up and spit it out somewhere. And then I've been totally surprised by other people, when they gave me head and without a word, swallowed everything almost as soon as it left my cock. A friend from high school was like that - she swallowed all the cum from the guys (me included) she sucked off.

    Oh, and I'm bi, and I used to suck cock too, before getting in my current relationship. I spit out the first guy's cum. The second guy I gave head to, I decided to let him cum in my mouth, and once I got a taste of him, I changed my mind about spitting. From then on, every time I sucked dick, I had the guy cum right in my mouth. I liked how cum tasted, like really liked it, and other people I've talked to have said the same thing. And then a few other people, like my wife, have said they can't stand the taste.

    So no, I don't get offended if someone spits out my cum once they've sucked my dick and let me cum in their mouth. I mean, they just made me cum, and after that, I feel great, so if they don't want my cum, that's totally fine with me.

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  • Has anyone actually had a blowjob where the partner spit the cum out?

    *Sure. She had a gag reflex. She sucked like a trooper while i ejaculated and then spit it into her palm to show me how well we did. I had no issue with than and actually preferred it.

    How did it make you feel?

    *I liked it. Once I have made a satisfying deposit, I was indifferent to where ir ended up.

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  • I only give BJs to Hubby and we are way beyond worring about exchanging bodily fluids. So yeah I swallow for him.

    I do know some women who just refuse to swallow and think its gross or something. My thought is its going in me one way or another and its way sexier to swallow and stay and cuddle after than to get up and spit it out.

  • Female opinion: I only swallow if I'm in love that guy. I barely swallow.

    I usually keep the semen inside of my mouth, I go to bathroom close the door, spit it out and wash my mouth. So they don't see when I spit. I don't know what other women do

    • so in your love making you get up and go to the bathroom to spit does that not ruin the mood his and yours.. Im all for letting and not getting to worried weather she swallows or not its that she does it at all that interest me the most.. but getting up part way in to love making seems strange to do that sorry.. but to each there own..

    • @smilelots Can't you read? I said IF I'm MAKING LOVE I SWALLOW. Most of times I go to bathroom and spit.

    • SPIT when I'm NOT in love. Why would I swallow everyone's cum? Do you drink every women's squirt pee

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  • i've always swallowed from my 1st blowjob and guys blantly expect you to swallow so i never went against that

    • do you swallow for him or for you or both ,, what makes you like to swallow if i may be so bold to ask.. my x wife would never put her mouth on me like that so she didn't have to worry about swallowing at all.. im just wondering we are all different right.

    • @smilelots i've always liked to swallow cum... i like it when it's nice and creamy as opposed to watery but still i like that too... it's also an emotional thing for me to swallow... most men don't make you swallow per se but i do it anyway for me and them... because it does make me feel sexy and hot when i swallow... and the emotional thing... you know it's very intimate.

    • Well the man in your live have had it very good I would say ,, turn that around and I eat pussy if you dont mind that word because I love what it does to the woman and to me ,, makes me feel good when I can give one such pleasure with just ease of wanting to and the desire to want to be good at it made me listen to her body and to her and go from there ,, but we are all different so the learning continues right.. enjoy your honey and have a wonderful day nite.

  • I prefer to swallow but several of my friends are like that… personal preference I guess… :o)

    • do you do it for him or for you?

    • @smilelots both!!!

    • nice question for you why dont woman think that way about men going down on them woman have honey coming from there pussy and we just lap it up no questions no spitting no wiping up just swallow and move on to whats next right.. are there ladies out there that had there guys go and spit out pussy juice that you know of?

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  • I haven’t seen it but I did date someone who wouldn’t let me cum in her mouth , and that wasn’t fun!

  • It has happened to me and I could care less. It is her choice after all. I just enjoy the bj and the incredible orgasms and try to return the favor every time!

  • Some people are just squeamish. I like oatmeal for all of 5 minutes before it starts to get cold and congeal, and then it just makes me want to barf.

    Some people have the assumption something will be terrible, so they resist and it makes the entire process a million times worse for them and reconfirms their assumptions.

    It's not something everyone can get over.

    • The reality is that it's just not pleasant, but it can very easily be made kinky and sexy to the point where it's easy to get over and be into it.

  • For me swallowing doesn't matter at all but I do like to finish in her mouth.

  • I've been with girls that went either way. I think it is a preference thing. I don't read into it much other than some girls don't like the taste.

  • I find it very disappointing.
    If I'm about to cum and I know my wife doesn't want to swallow, I usually give my wife a facial, or cum on her hair.

  • Had a few that spits it out on themselves

  • To be honest its up to the lady to do what she is comfortable with ,, just the thought of someone wanting to do that for me is enough for me either way im good with her decision to swallow or spit or just ask me to fuck her now or to cum all over her breast or tummy etc.. all good

  • Spitters are quitters

  • My girlfriend won't even let me cum in her mouth, I wish she would but she won't so I don't push it. We found a compromise and she finishes blowjobs busy wanking my onto her tits

  • Yes and I find it very insulting.. if she won't swallow then I'm finding another girlfriend.

  • i dont let men cum inside my mouth

    • How do you know when they're going to cum and how do you stop them from cumming in your mouth.

    • can I ask why? what is it about cum that bothers you in your own words and be honest.

    • do you let you girlfriend eat you and does he swallow the juice or just spit it out?

  • Normally it's bitches that spit. Good girls normally swallow

  • I get them all the time. My wife doesn't swallow and never really has. It doesn't bother me. She lets me cum in her mouth and waits until I'm done before going to the bathroom to spit it out. There's no difference for me except she didn't swallow, which is her preference. She's back quickly if we want to continue. If I want to mix it up, she'll let me cum on her face or on her tits. I'm good with it.

  • Vast majority of BJs I’ve had wasn’t a C. I. M. Instead I usually pull and and stick in in her pussy instead.