Blowjobs 101. I need techniques?

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My boyfriend is coming home from over seas soon and I want to give him mind-blowing oral. I want to know every little dirty, kinky detail that guys absolutely love and wish a girl would do.

Do you like all the focus on the head? Do you like a little bit of teeth? Do you like your shaft licked all around like a popsicle? What do you like us to do with your balls (touched, pulled, licked, sucked?) How do you like us to use our hands? Do you like us to start slow (licking your nipples, abs, thighs before getting to the actual bj?) Is it terrible if we can't do deepthroat? Do you like anal play? 

I read somewhere that a girl pressed her tongue in the crease of the head and a guy loved that, would you like that?

If you could answer any of those questions or just tell me what you love, I'd really appreciate it! I want to be a BJ master haha

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

For sure focus mostly on the head. The shaft itself doesn't have that many nerves on it so though paying attention to the area as a whole feels good plus builds anticipation, make sure to flick/lick around the head when you're coming up. It's a good way to maximize surface area being touched to just put the outer fourth in your mouth, swirl your tongue around it and the head, while paying attention to the shaft/balls with your hands. Two birds with one stone!

Most guys like some ball play. Start gently, with just barely making contact with your hands to feel out this particular guy's sensitivity to pain down there. Once you've got that taken care of, it feels good to suck on one ball at a time, though again not too hard as it's quite a delicate area.
Guys mostly say to minimize hand use during a blowjob, as they can give themselves a handjob the best. But as long as you incorporate some mouth action, I'm sure you'll hear no complaints.

&yeah, start slow. Let him enjoy the sensations rather than rushing for the finish from the get-go. Any stimulation to the head is appreciated. The frenulum, or fleshy part of the underside of the head is enjoyable to varying degrees with each guy. Same goes for the crease, though I'm sure he'll like the variation of more direct attention from the tongue. Anal play is a very individual thing, so run it by him before attempting anything.

It's not terrible if you can't deepthroat. A bit plus of that is the mental aspect, and physically if you can get it so far down that the head receives some stimulation from either the back of your throat or your reflex. So don't worry too much about that, though it's something that's very learnable. Just condition your gag-reflex slowly and regularly, a little bit each time till you get better control over it. Before you know it you'll be deep-throating like a pro. :)

tinyclit · Accepted Answer

It sound to me like you have things well in hand (pun intended). Some things you forgot. Sex is very mental, so eagerness and enthusiasm on your part are extremely important. You seem to have that well in hand too! But make sure you tell him. Talk dirty to him before, during and after. When your mouth gets tired, switch to your hands, then back to your mouth. Have him stroke it himself occasionally, then suck and lick some more. That helps them keep it hard the whole time even if your technique isn't perfect. He may want to pull out and cum all over your face. Be happy and smile if he does. Or he may want you to swallow, so be fully prepared to eagerly and enthusiastically swallow. My guy needs to stroke his cock, cum into my mouth, then watch me enjoy swallowing his cum. That's what makes him orgasm. I suck and lick his cock clean after I enthusiastically swallow his cum. I love it. Can't get enough.

itsnotcreative · Accepted Answer

I'm just going to tell you what I do and my boyfriend said that I'be given the best blow job he's ever had. He said he cummed so hard he didn't even want to move or talk at all. He just wanted to hug. I'm sure it's different for every guy but this is what my boyfriend likes.
1. Hold his dick with one hand and start by licking/kissing it.
2. Slowly go up and down and go deep every once in awhile.
3. If you need a break you can go back to kissing and licking few a little, but not long.
4. Listen to his breathing, as it speeds up you should speed up. Continue going deep every once in awhile.
5. When you can tell he is close go very fast.
Remember through the whole time to go deep occasionally and when you're close to the tip swirl your tongue around the head.
Hope this helps!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Ok I like how my ex-girlfriend did it. Ok here how she did it. Wrap your mouth around it tightly and suck it and keep your mouth tight his member. Suck till he cums. Now she was a master.

OHGEE · Accepted Answer

Your cheeks should go in when you do it. You gotta work them cheeks baby. I used to be in the military, when I was in, I wished there were more girls like you.

Shantishanti · Answer

Bite it softly

Virulent · Answer

Read a Jezebel article.

FirmSteam · Answer

What do you think so far has been the best blow job u have ever given? Honestly... Can you remember it?

Anonymous · Answer

Prostate, if he will let you massage his prostate while you give him head. He will see stars and cum twice as much as normal. My hubby loves it.

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