Slow at the beginning. Fast at the end. Blowjob 101. Listen up, girls. All the teasing, deep throating, ball sucking and other fluff contributes little to the best orgasm. Here's how to make a blow job memorable..
Start with the foreplay stage; an erotic massage/hand job, slooow and easy. During this stage he gets fully hard and pre-cum a'flowin. Internally, the semen pipeline is awakened, becomes fully engorged and is capable of a good "cum". The more engorged he is, the stronger and higher volume his ejaculation will be. When he's rock hard and you taste precum, you go to the "work up", which is bobbing, sucking, tongue swirling and hand stroking in sync at a moderate, non tiring (to you) pace. You will know when he's ready to cum by his bucking (Give me more!) and erratic/deep breathing. Then you go to the finish, where you continue to bob, suck and tongue swirl at the same pace (a little faster, if you can) but begin hand stroking very fast and aggressively until he starts to ejaculate. While he does, you continue hand stroking aggressively but stop bobbing and tongue swirling (he's suddenly become super-sensitive at the head) and keep sucking without mouth motion until ejaculation stops. The next time, try exactly this and see what responses you get.
Spitting is not a gross out but is also not a good lubricant. One thing you can do is reach down and get some of your own (Wonderful visuals for him!) or use a bit of lotion during the foreplay stage.
Start slow. Then mix it up till he is ready to cum. If you let him cum in your mouth I like to have her treat my cock like a candy sucker and apply an inward suction with an increased speed while sucking while I cum. When I am almost done cumming stop and enjoy the moment as I finish in her mouth.
I love to BJ my boyfriend very slowly to enjoy even more. He starts to take precio out and we switch French kissing and BJ him and that way it gets more and more erotic until it comes to the point where he can't stand no more so he finishes in my mouth. Then we immediately French kiss each other and that gives him an instant hard on againg so then we can continue with our sex session fuc*ing for very long. I really enjoy it. Lol.
First off, spitting is low class and gross. Don't do it in the streets and certainly never in the bedroom.
And when I give a blowjob it's different every time and just depends on my mood. Often, I just want him to orgasm and cum in my mouth, so I go for the sperm.
Variety is really the important thing, mixing it up between slow and fast...
I think guys will always enjoy a good blowjob regardless
start in slow motion and end it with high voltage Electra...😀
that's the way we men enjoy it...
@himanshuks lol trust me, I knwo that all too well!!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I could not vote cause it depends on several things.
My mood, and my fantasy at the moment and actually most importantly my partner's mood and willingness.
And not at all. i am a complete dirty minded guy with no limit when it comes to sexuality.
I don't spit. I'll lick him all over first but I take my time and he seems to like that.
my love :P perfect!
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hey baby :P
A slow job blow job is as good as no job 😂
Not slow the entire time 😂 Just in the beginning, of course things would be sped up towards the end to make you finish lmao
Taking it slow then allowing the boy to cum in the mouth because some girls like the taste and swallowing cum.
do it slow first.. for lubricant suck it instead of splitting (yuk)... ending will be like superfast train
Option C : Depends on current mood.
Spitting on it is ok.
mix things up... maybe a bit slower at the beginning and later faster
spitting is not gross... actually I like them sloppy
Depends on my mood I like both, I don't mind spitting on my dick Darling
slow to start then fast to make me cum! :P
If it ain't slow... watch out I'm gonna BLOW
I put the first answer, but that was just because I wanted to see the poll. I've never actually received one so I have no opinion. Although the spitting thing seems gross. That's probably just me though, since I have a problem with messes and germs.
I prefer to start giving slow then increase the speed as I go along
take it slow on sex
I usually want her to get to the point, but if she does a great job of taking it slow the end result is incredibly explosive!
*gulp*
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