Blowjobs & handjobs. Why do so many other women despise having to give a guy one?

Like it's the easiest thing in the world to do. I regularly give my fella bjs and handjobs if it's my time of the month or if I'm not in the mood sometimes it's kind of a turn on. I mean if your not ready for sex or feel iys too early this is a great way to keep a guy intrested.
Blowjobs & handjobs. Why do so many other women despise having to give a guy one?
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  • I can tell you my reason from my middle school mindset years ago. Back then, I forget what grade I was in, but I never knew what a BJ was. I kept hearing my friends talking about it all the time, so one day at lunch time, when we were all eating hot dogs, I asked my friend kay all innocently like, "What's a bj?" That was a hilarious moment for most of the group because she used her hotdog to show me the motion of how a bj went and I was horrified... EWWW wtf
    Never understood why people liked it so much. Now I'm 30 years old and I didn't give my first bj until I was in my early twenties in college. It was okay. I'm not crazy crazy about dicks, but if I can get my guy off, then I'm happy. It's not as gross as I thought it was, but I don't like the taste of semen tbh.

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  • Some women are just grossed out with the idea of putting someone’s genital in their mouth. The others probably find it to be degrading. If they are religious, it could be a reason too. I personally like giving head because I love looking into my guy’s eyes knowing that he enjoys the pleasure a lot.

    • I love looking up at a guy when I'm blowing him and seeing him with his eyes closed and mouth hanging open in pleasure and knowing I'm the cause of that pleasure!! I like when I look up and see that they're watching me blow them too, i enjoy them watching me and it makes me do better lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • Never ever thought of what you said before. If you are not in the mood or you are having your period why not find a way to satisfy HIS desires?

    New twist on the “I’m sorry dear I have a headache” thing. You have chosen to calm the situation and satisfy his erection stimulus while maintaining your emotional and physical self.

    Wish I had a girlfriend just like you. No judgmental thing going on here.

  • Kudos to you for that. Although I do hope it is mostly because you want to and less to keep him interested.

    I think blowjobs especially might fall into the category of imagination being better than reality. Perhaps us guys need to step up our game when on the receiving end and get into your head more, figuratively as much as literally.

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  • I've got a legitimately small mouth and tense jaws. I had to get my mouth surgically "widened" when I was young. I also carry a shit ton of tension in the jaw.

    So it actually hurts to give bjs for a long time. I can, and have, but it's not really fun for me. It's painful most of the time.

    I love handjobs, though. They're fun.

    • Certainly an excellent reason to not enjoy giving them, But your love of handjobs shows the lobe of giving hem pleasure there. Pretty sure most guys find you a wonderful partner.

    • Handjobs are another option and fun to do.

    • Yeah, that sucks. A handjob with finishing in your mouth is awesome too.

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  • i always love to give a blowjob... put me in a mini dress and a place for him to sit and a place for me to kneel i'm happy... i don't buy that jaw sore because you don't have to knock yourself out giving head if you don't want to... you can just suck the head and long as his cock is in your mouth and your ready and willing to swallow his cum he'll be more than happy with that.

  • If I'm not in the mood my bj is going to suck literally. Lol! I don't like giving mediocre bj's. So I have to be in the mood to be passionate about it.

  • I didn't know some people didn't like it. I think it's fun. I don't know.

  • Because they get nothing out of it and are not interested in doing something purely for someone else's pleasure, and there are men who don't reciprocate.

  • For me at first i used to think this is something weird and i hated the idea but once i started giving i just fell in love and since then i could never stop n my love for giving blowjobs just keeps growing hehe
    And anyone not liking it to be honest is beyond my understanding... all i can say is that like me they may have not tried it...

    • @desidoll @elizamichale1 @chrissykerdock @pinkmichae @smoke-n-growls Love receiving, but mouthwash can go far, thereafter.

    • @Mikeybear ummm

    • @elizamichale1 Lol

  • I would rather do a blowjob over a handjob

    • Agreed. My arms hurt less and my mouth dies all the work lol

    • Yessssss feels sooo much better to get blowjobs than handjobs

  • I think most women love doing that :P

  • I agree some girls I have been with wasn't ready to have sex but we still enjoy giving each other oral sex and have mutual masturbation session's. Also doing that before actually having sex kind of makes the sex better because you experimented with each other and know what you like.

  • So many? Not true, lol.

  • I don't know but it is one of my favorite things a woman can do for me especially if you want to public places. 👹😎

  • Getting blowjobs from a girl is a must for me. I'm biggest fan of receiving blowjobs

  • Because it takes effort by the woman and it pleases the man. Most women are into their own pleasure and don't really care about the man's.

  • They're lame n not keepers

  • Usually girls only dont like this if they dont like the man. Many girls do not like or find their bfs attractive. Lol

  • I know why...

    Blowjobs & handjobs. Why do so many other women despise having to give a guy one?

    Coz a bitch can't stand to see a man have a good time.

  • It’s not they’re thing

  • Thank you! There should be more girls like you!! I completely agree. And what’s better than receiving a bj from a redhead!

  • Need more girls like you out there

  • I hope my girl accept to give me one, she doesn’t like to put mine in her mouth, but I want it so bad to be sucked hard

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